DAMunzy ,

I still don't think this would save my mom from whichever TV source she watches, Fox News, News Max, or OAN.

BonesOfTheMoon ,

Can you get into her parental controls? Someone on Reddit did that with their parents and it actually got them somewhere.

aniki ,

I blocked fox news at my parents house for years until my dad died. probably saved the remaining years we had together.

JasonDJ ,

Can we start some viral alliteration to get people off Facebook for a few weeks? Or maybe get them more mindful of their social media consumption?

Make Memories Matter May?

Just Journal June?

Just Jibe July?

Authentic August?

Send Stamps September?

Offline October?

No Negativity November?

UntitledQuitting ,

legit offline October is great, and works as a grassroots movement. I’m having an “offline October” is akin to when my friends and I do Dry July. I’m going to start doing this (despite the fact that I haven’t used social media in 2 years)

JasonDJ , (edited )

Gotta spin the news so it makes it more appealing. Good way to spin the headline is it "reboots your bullshit detector".

Has to be fully grassroots though. I don't think many influencers will promote it, they're the most addicted and it's literally their livelihood.

webghost0101 ,

Instructions clear and understood.

You can find my part of this new online activism here

Dont forget to like, share and doomscroll the rest of my anti socialmedia propaganda 🤩

MalachaiConstant ,

How about Analogue August or Stop Scrolling September?

I'll also say, Offline October is pretty dang good.

cosmicrookie ,
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

I'd vote for Anal August for sure!

sugar_in_your_tea ,

There's something on the tip of my tongue. Something like ____ Zuck. Something that rhymes, and expresses how I feel about him and his platform. I just can't quite put my finger on it...

😉

Halcyon ,
@Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Summer Social Media Sabbatical:

Join June/July's journey to joyful jamming!"

cumskin_genocide ,

Shut it down like Tiktok. Those platforms are brainwashing people into believing far right and far left ideas.

Samsy ,

But, but I like far left ideas. The pictures about people dancing in circles, living in communities without the need of money, make me giggle.

Time to start a Facebook account. /s

Honytawk ,

That isn't far left though.

More like overthrowing governments, disbanding corporations, abolishing personal properties, completely removing currency, controlling speech, ...

I myself am a socialist, but what you describe is closer to centre left than far left.

RaoulDook ,

Yes those are the problematic fantasies that corporate social media is brainwashing people towards. Too many of the youth are wasting their time on fantasies of revolution when they could be acting within the scope of reality to achieve something actually meaningful.

cumskin_genocide ,

They would be better off actually working instead of wasting their time protesting and getting useless degrees

Samsy ,

Okay my comment was a little bit sarcastic, but there is some truth in it. Removing currency and removing private property isnt that bad. How would we live then? You just have your skills and trade/offer them every day against the skills of someone else, who makes food for example. No third person would make profit of your trade. Sounds better then what we have actually. Today the Top 10% literally do nothing and get all things they want.

But removing everything sounds odd, I know. Let's start simple: how about it isn't allowed to have more than 1 mio. Dollars. I mean 1 mio. is a lot. If you have more you pay 100% tax. Nobody needs more than 1 mio.

Btw "controlling speech" is one of the far right favourites, not left.

CapeWearingAeroplane ,

We tried the "trade your skills for something you need". In every surviving society it eventually lead to the development of a currency (not hard to see why), which requires/leads to regulation, which requires enforcement, aaaand you're back at a modern society. I'm all for more regulation to reduce economic and social differences in society, but the people that are talking about abolishing governments and currencies need to pick up a history book and follow their ideas to their natural conclusion.

"Controlling speech" is a hallmark of authoritarian governments, be they far-left or far-right, there are plenty of historical examples of both.

DAMunzy ,

Damn those far left ideals like liveable wages!

BonesOfTheMoon ,

I think Tiktok can often be creative and informative, which Facebook is definitely not though. I don't use Tiktok but what people have sent me have usually been funny.

TheDarksteel94 ,

I've seen quite a few commies on Lemmy. Just saying.

brain_in_a_box ,

far left ideas.

Lol. Yeah that's the problem with society today; Mark Zuckerberg is turning the kids into commies!

Zedstrian ,

For my relatives Facebook's not the problem, it's all the far right wing propaganda on YouTube that makes claims without backing them up with any sort of evidence. The more they watch, the more they believe it, and the less they believe evidence to the contrary.

cosmicrookie ,
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

I deleted my account back in November when they enforced the 'pay or ok' option. I was not ok with that

Have read a lot of books since !

dwemthy ,

What's "pay or ok"?

cosmicrookie ,
@cosmicrookie@lemmy.world avatar

In EU you were given an option by META to pay for adfree experience or accept targeted ads

Problem 1: if you paid, they would not stop tracking you. They would just stop showing ads. They would still be able to suggest content from commercial accounts.

Problem 2: the price was unreasonable. It depended on how many accounts you have across the platforms but i believe that the price for my profile and a couple of pages was €32 every month

Problem 3: these two options replaced the option to accept untargeted ads. I was ok with untargeted but they removed the option

Their solution has since been deemed as 'not ok' by the EU data protection board

https://www.euractiv.com/section/platforms/news/eu-data-protection-body-says-metas-pay-or-ok-model-is-not-ok/

ReveredOxygen ,
@ReveredOxygen@sh.itjust.works avatar

perhaps if they pay, pay or ok will be ok?

TORFdot0 ,

Facebook is 100% shitposts. Most of my friends on it have aged out of posting every little thing and so it’s mostly shitposts and soft core porn disguised as short form videos on the Facebook feed and not any of my friends that I actually wanted to follow when I made my account in the 00s.

I really want to delete my account but I still have to use it to organize class reunions and alumni events for my old high school. I’m going to try to float the idea that we move to a mailing list instead. I’d rather buy a domain and maintain a website for that than continue using Facebook for free

Edgarallenpwn ,
@Edgarallenpwn@midwest.social avatar

My mother in law entered some contest where the votes had to be verified through Facebook. It was the first time I logged in since 2016 or so. The majority of my feed was AI pics of kids missing limbs, or chicks with impossibly large tits/body proportions with the description "Please wish me a happy birthday no one else did" with 40 hashtags of celeb names or movies/shows that came out around then. Mixed in was fake news bullshit or videos that had 4 different watermarks on it. Maybe if I used it more I would see somewhat relevant things, but its worse than I thought if that's a normal feed.

Halcyon ,
@Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Start a signal group and people may start switching their messenger altogether.

Halcyon ,
@Halcyon@discuss.tchncs.de avatar

Deleting Facebook forever reduces stress and desinformation long-term.

Caligvla ,
@Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Not being stuck inside of an echo chamber really does wonders for the brain. And yes, I know the irony of saying this on Lemmy, but it's true.

krashmo ,

Echo chambers are a lot easier to recognize and ignore when they aren't filled with your friends and family.

ImplyingImplications ,

Lemmy isn't really an echo chamber. It's like saying going over to a friends place is an echo chamber because you and your friend get along. There's nothing wrong with hanging out with people who share your values and beliefs.

The problem with social media are their algorithms. They aren't designed to connect you with like-minded people, but to keep you engaged. The content that keeps people engaged tends to be terrible content.

The recent "a man or a bear" trend is a perfect example. Algorithms love divisive content like that because it drives engagement, but it also leads to people getting really upset over nothing. Lemmy doesn't have any algorithms driving engagement so it doesn't have that problem.

fine_sandy_bottom ,

I strongly disagree.

I don't think lemmy is necessarily an echochamber per se, rather its just a place where misinformation exists and opinions are manipulated.

Lemmy does use algorithms to show you the most engaging content, and there are absolutely bots and bad actors manipulating which content is prioritised.

The genocide Joe / vote abstinence thing was a very clear example.

blanketswithsmallpox ,

... That's not an echo chamber though. That's propaganda and vote manipulation mostly by literal state actors and brainwashed rubes.

An echo chamber is when people literally self segregate enough to the point that they no longer consume almost any media that doesn't fit their belief. Its exacerbated by large corporations who profit from ad revenue driven through user engagement.

Lemmy is not an echo chamber no more than the literal radio.

Reddit is not an echo chamber.

You can make these an echo chamber through varying degrees of ease. But places like Facebook, YouTube, and Twitter have been proven to drive you into one by exploiting ragebait for clicks.

You can say they're both fruit, sure. But one is like eating cantaloupe and the other like eating bananas laced with speed.

dgmib ,

Lemmy’s a lot better than Reddit for not being an echo chamber because the communities are less interest specific, and most of us are here because we’re the type to seek out a better discussion rather than stick with status quo.

But as it gets bigger and the communities become more niché it will become a bigger issue.

NotAnotherLemmyUser ,

Lemmy is definitely an echo chamber, but I agree that it's not necessarily a bad thing as long as we recognize it for what it is.
There are a large number of people out there that have very different opinions than the majority of users on this platform, we need to keep things respectful even in our disagreements with them instead of tearing them down for their opinions.

Mango ,

No, this isn't like that at all. Mods here are actively pwning anyone who slightly disagrees with them. This is very definitely an echo chamber.

Empricorn ,

Have you tried Linux, communism, and being gay?

TubularTittyFrog ,

yes, yes, and yes.

and i no longer like any of those things.

Empricorn , (edited )

Damn, speedrunning the Lemmy topics! I only do 2/3 of them, otherwise we'd probably already be married!

Cybermonk_Taiji ,

I deleted Facebook Jan 7 2021.

Oderus ,
@Oderus@lemmy.world avatar

I just created an account a couple of months ago after never using it. It's easy to filter out the dummies.

ZILtoid1991 ,

I envy you. In my country (Hungary), I just cannot really live without it.

Resol ,
@Resol@lemmy.world avatar

Replace "for just a few weeks" with "forever", and "reduces" with "gets rid of", and now you have an even better statement.

ahriboy ,
@ahriboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Permanently deleting all Facebook accounts and pages could save you even better.

Resol ,
@Resol@lemmy.world avatar

Or even more better: just get rid or all social media that is associated with massive corporate giants (YouTube is still too useful to get rid of, but it dors still have lots of problems)

ptz ,
@ptz@dubvee.org avatar

I deleted FB 15 years ago and haven't missed it once.

Maeve ,

Me too and me either.

Semi_Hemi_Demigod ,
@Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world avatar

I only miss it because Facebook Marketplace has killed Craigslist and I have some crap I need to sell

tim-clark , (edited )
@tim-clark@kbin.social avatar

I gave up selling on marketplace, and donate everything. People messaging you for months asking questions or wanting a refund after they broke it. I'm not your tech support, and no warranty claims. Have heard this is a regional issue and also depends on the category. I will never sell another car on marketplace. Craigslist is great for the anonymity.

errer ,

Can’t even give shit away on Facebook’s buy nothing groups cause people fucking ghost you after saying they’ll take it

BonesOfTheMoon ,

iS tHiS sTiLl aVAILaBlE.

Marketplace when I was moving saved me many trips because people will come pick up any old thing, but it was the pits of hell to deal with. Some lady ghosted me picking up some doors, so I moved on to the next person, and she messaged me back three weeks later saying she was interested again, and was mad as blazes I hadn't held onto them.

Steve ,

Marketplace is much worse than Craigslist, I don’t get it.

Schmoo ,
@Schmoo@slrpnk.net avatar

Craigslist was always on the fringes, before Facebook marketplace came in there were a bunch of separate and disconnected online marketplaces. Facebook marketplace had the advantage of already having a massive user base (larger than any of the existing online marketplaces), causing it to become the largest one right out the gate, which then of course makes it the most attractive option for sellers since they will reach more people.

Smite6645 ,

It's also real annoying when trying to look up business hours or a restaurant menu only to find all their links are to Facebook.

sugar_in_your_tea ,

Fortunately, my area has a popular classifieds at a local newspaper website, so I've never even looked at Facebook marketplace.

proudblond ,

I (maybe, kinda) miss what Facebook was like in, er, 2008-ish. But then again I was also 25 so maybe I just miss what life was like back then.

pete_the_cat ,

Same. I got on it in 2006 and it was great up until about 2010, 2013-2014 was when the shit started to hit the fan.

porksoda ,

2013-2014 was when the timeline shifted from being a chronological timeline to a feed. The algo took over and it went to shit.

TubularTittyFrog ,

yeah. the platforms aren't so bad in and of themselves, it's the engagement algorithms that turn everything to shit.

just like IG, YT, video/music stremaing etc. you could stumble upon random and interesting shit... now the algo is just trying to shove kendrick lamar and joe rogan at me none stop because that is what is 'popular' and whatever shitty movie that netflix is trying to promote.

browsing is dead and search is also mostly broken. you can't even effectively search for shit anymore.

the only place i can freely browse anymore is my local library. and discover lots of cool things. that experience on the internet is dead.

sugar_in_your_tea ,

That sounds roughly about when I bailed on it.

pete_the_cat ,

I stopped actively using it in about 2015 and every time I happen to go on it (like once every 3 years because, like a lot of people, it's how I communicate with family members I don't see often) it's like uncovering and diving into a cesspool.

Captain ,

I still have Facebook but pretty much just for messaging.. and honestly I don't even check it.

I had 6 unread messages and 30 plus notifications when I checked a moment ago.

Pretty happy with the results.

Juice64 ,
@Juice64@lemmy.world avatar

Deleting it for 3 years also improves mental health and keeps toxic family members out of your business. I wish I’d learned that sooner.

Honytawk ,

Just never accept the friend requests by family members, it isn't worth it.

Even aside from politics, the only thing they do is comment dumb annoying gifs on your posts.

sugar_in_your_tea ,

I think I'm closer to 10 years, but I do remember needing to recreate one for a few weeks while I worked with a few Facebook employees on a project.

Anyway, I don't even know what Facebook looks like these days. My contacts occasionally mention it, but nothing important seems to happen there.

Just delete your account. It's not a big deal, it's just toxic people showing off for other toxic people.

3volver ,

One of the best decisions I made was deleting my Facebook. I really mean that, one of the best decisions in my entire life. Not getting sucked into the absolute bullshit fest that greedy shit fuckers like Mark Zuckerberg set up for humanity is extremely relieving. Don't compare yourself to other people, you be you, just try to be your best self, it's worth it. Don't let the billionaire leeches of society take everything from you, fuck Facebook.

CrowAirbrush ,

The downside is that everyone around you in real life is stuck in that loop, so you can't really escape it anymore.

sugar_in_your_tea ,

Eh, someone needs to be the first to exit the matrix.

ZhaoYadang ,

PROPAGANDA. Please use the actual word. Why use two words when one do trick?

Syrc ,

From Wikipedia:

Propaganda is communication that is primarily used to influence or persuade an audience to further an agenda, which may not be objective and may be selectively presenting facts to encourage a particular synthesis or perception, or using loaded language to produce an emotional rather than a rational response to the information that is being presented.

Propaganda isn’t always fake news, it can also be true stuff presented in a biased way.

Similarly, fake news isn’t always propaganda. Some is just stuff spread by trolls to make fun of people.

barsoap ,

Propaganda isn’t always fake news, it can also be true stuff presented in a biased way.

It can also be true stuff presented in an unbiased way. There's a disconnect here between the proper definition of the word, which is perfectly neutral, and its connotations because the what secretary for tsunami safety doesn't call their stuff "propaganda" but "public service announcement". Still the same thing, though, the tsunami safety secretary is trying to persuade the audience to not be stupid and get to high ground as soon as the sea recedes. Very much pushing an agenda, they *gasp* want people to survive and *gasp* use communication to achieve it.

Syrc ,

Can it? I searched a bit and all the definitions I’ve found seem to be about swaying public opinion, not simple objective announcements.

It does have a negative connotation even though it can be used for good, but I still don’t think purely objective messages like “a tsunami is coming, get to high ground” should count as propaganda.

barsoap , (edited )

What about things like this?

Which btw yes certainly has editorialising going on. The answer to "Useless projects are funded with EU money" starts with "National and regional authorities in the EU countries select projects which they think meet their needs best in line with the strategies and priorities agreed with the Commission." Which isn't saying that EU money doesn't found useless projects, but implicitly blames regional authorities for it. I don't even think they want to mislead, here, they simply want to stay diplomatic.

(This video about the canopy walk is brilliant. (enable subtitles)).

Syrc ,

I think that qualifies as propaganda too: its intention is to improve the public opinion of the Cohesion policy by clearing misconceptions.

(About the “project” in the video… what the hell? I had to Google it because I wasn’t convinced it was a real thing. Just why?)

barsoap , (edited )

Corruption, that's why. Similar to how the Italian mafia would half-build highway bridges with taxpayer money and then mysteriously have some shell company go bankrupt. OLAF is on it because of course they are when stuff makes the press. If they have a case EPPO will take over at which point that Hungarian mayor will have the questionable honour of being up against the gal who cleaned up Romania... before Hungarian courts. If those turn out to be corrupt then that's going to buy the mayor time but ultimately the ECJ would overrule them. Still no mechanism to actually set boots on member state grounds but Hungary is already on thin ice when it comes to getting suspended from the EU for various reasons, they're going to tread lightly.

See if you want to be corrupt in the EU you have to do it like the big boys: Implement some policy, then get a cushy job at a company. Or receive tons of money for boring private speeches. Something like that, directly grabbing into state coffers is so uncivilised.

EDIT: Oh, Hungary didn't join EPPO, figures. They can still freeze assets, though. Also if I understand things correctly our mayor would turn into a fugitive in the rest of the EU.

Syrc ,

Yes, I figured but… isn’t that a bit too obvious? Surely there had to be a less blatant way of laundering money than… a treetop walk with no trees?

barsoap ,

It's also lazy and they're used to not getting investigated or even called out. But even if prosecution is high and you're not lazy you get corrupt politicians doing blatantly obvious stuff like the mask scandal in Germany, making a fortune of selling FFP2 masks at ludicrous markups to the state: Their behaviour was not technically illegal (laws got adjusted since then), the only one who got prosecuted got prosecuted for tax evasion, not corruption.

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