Imo anyone who doesn't feel free in a marriage is doing it wrong. Compromise is for things like getting orange juice with some pulp because one likes lots and the other likes none, not compromising who you fundamentally are as a person.
Don't marry someone who doesn't appreciate the quirks that make you you.
It's how you turn a goth gf into a goth wife ( lemmy.world )
Too powerful for their Euro arteries ( lemmy.world )