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Soldusty

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Where am I: Trapped on an island, next to Europe, where stupid people won their vote to become insignificant, have rivers poisoned, get ripped off by the government and other bad stuff.

What am I:
#Human & sometimes, Ryuno @theRhinoDragon
#Autistic
#Asexual
#Agender or #NonBinary (this is the question?)

I enjoy:
#Animals
#Nature
#Humour
#Art
#Writing
#Reading
#Movies

I try to, enjoy doing/ work on:
#Art
#Drawing
#Doodle
#Surreal
#Abstract

#Writing
#Story
#Scribbles

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theautisticcoach , to ActuallyAutistic group
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Distinguishing needs from preferences can be challenging.

Focus on what’s essential for your well-being vs. what brings comfort or joy.

Listen to your body and emotions.

What’s happening?

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Soldusty ,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic
Maybe I'm misunderstanding but life tends not to be worth it without some comfort & joy. Without them you are either fulfilling the capitalists dream of not earning enough to live on whilst working yourself to the bone or are suffering in some other way that leaves you totally drained & feeling worthless.

spika , to ActuallyAutistic group
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I really hate it when it takes a few text messages to articulate a thought, but my friend responds to the first message without context of the next two messages which would completely change the response, but they clearly have put their phone down somewhere because they must be doing something because now that the thought does need a timely reply because it's in regard to a change of plans which would be better started earlier than later..... they're now not reading their messages and you've trapped yourself in waiting mode hell.

@actuallyautistic

Soldusty ,
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@spika @actuallyautistic
If this was me I'd probably end up stressing about weather to bug them with more messages, just short, asking 'well?' Or just a ? or the emoji version.
Hope you got/get a response in time.

Soldusty ,
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@spika @actuallyautistic
It's a horrible feeling. Glad things got worked out in the end.

spika , to ActuallyAutistic group
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One of the odd things about being AuDHD and having executive functioning issues around cleanliness is that 95% of the time I cannot get myself to clean or tidy.... but then, one day... say, I puke all over the bathroom by accident or I explode a soda all over my room, and then all of the sudden a switch flips and instead of having a meltdown and becoming all helpless over it, I switch into "deep clean" mode and suddenly there's this seemingly endless well of energy for all things cleaning until I literally exhaust myself. On the bright side, my shit is going to be cleaner than it's been in months!

@actuallyautistic

Soldusty ,
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@spika @actuallyautistic
For a moment my brain went 😃 THIS! Totally this!
Then my other brain cell piped up, yeah but our tank is like the size of a divers oxygen tank if it was made for a barbie doll.
First brain cell, yeah, that does explain why once said room's floor or object, fixture or piece of furniture is thoroughly cleaned I'm all done 😅😅.

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