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Elvenby

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🌈 Gender neutral queerdo

🖤 Il en francais, They in english

🌙 Autistic

🍁 Musician, video editor, photographer, storyteller

🐐 Vegan

English, French and Romanian

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Ilovechai , to autisticadvocacy group
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Often, I relate to ND vids but this one has me doubting. I do have autopilot for bedtime routine or shower routine etc, only if it gets interrupted I might forget a step 🤔 So is this universal? So many in the comments relate to the wife on this one, I know it's a spectrum, but can this be used to rule stuff out? Yeah, I'm still out here swinging back and forth pendulum style 🫠
@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8iqN7Gujft/?igsh=eXQwamMzeGNxYTky

Elvenby ,
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@Ilovechai @actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy I think first there is a big difference between ADHD and autism, or AUDHD. I'm autistic and I crave having a clear schedule, so every night I do the same things, preparing my coffee for the morning etc., while for an ADHD person I would say it is harder to get habits. The wife in the video seems to be AUDHD (I just checked the # so maybe I'm wrong) so this is a more complicated matter. But anyway I think it is normal to not relate to the video while beeing ND!

MuppetRat , to ActuallyAutistic group
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@actuallyautistic My autism doesn't make me disabled, SOCIETY makes me disabled.
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Elvenby ,
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@MuppetRat @actuallyautistic in france since 2005 this is the definition of disabled in the law-> (quickly translated by me) "A disability is any limitation of activity one may suffer into society as a result of physical, sensory or mental impairments etc"(the etc is added by me)

snoopy_jay , to ActuallyAutistic group German
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@actuallyautistic To those who do not (!) have children: Is family important to you? I can not say that my family has mistreated me in any way or not accepted me the way I am, and yet I am drifting away further and further every year. I think I haven't seen any of them in, like, 7 years? I think I just don't like spending time with humans, related or not? 🫥

Elvenby ,
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@snoopy_jay @actuallyautistic I think I find it hard to understand why blood related people should matter more than others. I also do not feel close to my parents (even if I still see them a lot). I don't understand why I should trust or like someone more just because they're blood related and "only" because of that, when the relationship I have with others (friends) are built from the scratch and chosen by me ( let me clarify that my family is also not particularly bad).

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