nddev , to ActuallyAutistic group
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I saw this today:

https://beige.party/@Waitnwallflower/112671883429087272

As an man, I wondered whether an employer could make me take a personality test here in the UK. It could (accidentally otter deliberately) detect , which is a protected characteristic here: I'm not obliged to disclose my to my employer, and my employer is not allowed to discriminate against me on the basis of it.

To my surprise, the answer is yes, with caveats:

https://www.bps.org.uk/faqs/taking-test-part-employment

It's not a problem for me: an employer would be unwise to reject autistic software engineers! But other autists might want to think about it.

@actuallyautistic

nddev OP ,
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@actuallyautistic
I've alerted OP to this thread.

dinobelbo ,
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@nddev @actuallyautistic

That was exactly my thought when my previous employer started rolling those out to new candidates. As a candidate I would never accept to disclose any medical information to a company, even if it's "just a psychometric test". I tried warning management about that but they didn't understand my concern 😕

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So, it's cool enough that I finally have the urge to put on my zippered hooded sweatshirt again. Part of my involves being comfortable with fabric against my skin -- and not having that (and having to wear short sleeve shirts) has been unbearable. That means it's way too hot for me.
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Aerliss ,
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@DoomsdaysCW @actuallyautistic have to wear socks, but hate wearing shoes indoors. Very much dislike having bare legs unless it's very hot. Absolutely hate skirts and dresses, especially if I'm outside. I wear light, summery trousers all year. I'm okay with short sleeves but usually wear a cardi or shirt over a T.

masukomi ,
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@Aerliss @DoomsdaysCW @actuallyautistic I have a problem with parts of my skin – especially on the torso and arms - becoming hyper sensitive from the fabric, touching it. It is not uncommon at all for me to take off my shirt and bra and run around topless in the middle of the workday.

One of the many reasons that remote work is important ;)

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This could be the connection between Ehlers-Danlos and neurodivergence. (People with EDS, like me, are 7 times as likely to be autistic and 5 times as likely to have ADHD -- also like me.)

Cartilage-Like Structures Key to Brain Plasticity - Neuroscience News
https://neurosciencenews.com/brain-plasticity-memory-cs6-26042/








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ScottSoCal ,
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@androcat

I've mostly heard "idiopathic", which is medical for "we don't know why".

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@ScottSoCal

"We don't know why" seems a lot better than a term can be understood to mean "You're making it up"

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  • Robsadaisy ,

    Adding tasks that I’ve done, that weren’t on the original list, just so I can cross them off.

    BeAware , to ADHD memes
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    I feel like I'm always "just chilling"🤦‍♂️ 😬

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    My limitless desire for information always gets hindered by my very limited memory.

    There's nothing like the ADHD experience of going to google something and immediately forgetting what you were going to search so you have to look through your recent apps to find whatever triggered the thought, but then get distracted in the apps, then just rinse and repeat.😩

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  • tslnox ,

    So is that why I'm decently productive at work but it's a miracle if I can force myself to do the laundry or load the dishwasher or other chores?

    Baggie ,

    Very likely. I find it also has a lot to do with environment, like work is the place I go to get stuff done, home is the place I play games and chill. So when it's time to get stuff done at home, the wires get crossed a bit.

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    BeAware , to ADHD memes
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    The ADHD urge to lie about why you didn't do something because "my brain refused to start on it" doesn't make sense to a lot of neurotypicals.

    @adhd

    This behavior has gotten me into a lot of shit over the years😬🤦‍♂️

    rekabis ,

    ADD/ADHD is an executive function failure related to feedback and it’s relationship to motivation. Normies never experience that on anything approaching a regular basis. As such, trying to explain that to them is like trying to explain what the colour of the number seven smells like. They’ll be all, “well, just do it. How hard could it be?”

    die444die ,

    They’ll be all, “well, just do it. How hard could it be?”

    Though sometimes that’s exactly what I need someone to tell me. To the point that I do this with some of my other ADHD friends. “Do it right now. I’ll wait.”

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    My greatest tragedy is that I literally always want a nap, right up until ten pm, when I feel utterly alive and electrified.

    @adhd

    I know I'm not the only one...right?😅

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