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autism101 , to ActuallyAutistic group
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Autistic folk often have a lot of other stuff they are dealing with. You can think of it as “Autism and…” because that is the reality for most of us.

Here is a list of “some” of the more common ones.

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  • hanscees ,
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    @autism101 @actuallyautistic what are GI issues?

    hanscees ,
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    @bananamangodog @autism101 @actuallyautistic well can confirm here about the GI issues

    Zumbador , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    @actuallyautistic

    I have half formed thoughts about autism and externality. Not sure if "externality" is the right word?

    I seem to be much more entangled with objects and my environment than most people, and I think that's a autistic (and ADHD?) thing.

    Having to use notes and lists to remember things and organise my thinking, as if my memory resides as much on paper and digitally, as it does in my brain.

    Having strong empathy for non-living things, as if harming them is harming myself.

    My relationship with my home: I don't really feel safe and relaxed anywhere else, and I strongly dislike other people (except for my husband) being in my space. As if my space is an extension of myself.

    All of these things feel like different manifestations of the boundaries between myself and everything else being blurred.

    hanscees ,
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    @niamhgarvey @AutisticDoctorStruggles @Zumbador @actuallyautistic I have that strongly with nature, so with plants and ants and hoverflies and So on. But perhaps that is something else.

    theautisticcoach , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    We often run into miscommunication issues, not just with allistics, but also other comrades.

    What barriers do you face in communications?

    @actuallyautistic

    hanscees ,
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    @roknrol @theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic my patience with stupid is also just too small. Allistics need to group-wise express their mutual emotions on situations and while that is going on they are like a stirred waspnest if you point out the other side of the coin. So exhausting.

    hanscees ,
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    @roknrol @theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic then if you can find better managers, but if not it sucks

    theautisticcoach , to ActuallyAutistic group
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    Our emotions tell us a lot about what’s happening in our lives.

    Because of people telling us that we emote wrong and alexithymia, however, we lose touch with them. Then we get bullied for being “emotionless”

    How do you get in touch with your emotions?

    @actuallyautistic

    hanscees ,
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    @theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic heres a nice study on
    and the conceptual disaster produced by measuring in a shitty way.

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