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Riven , to No Stupid Questions in Is there a chat/dating app that isn't complete shit and pay wall restricted?
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I used the Boo app to find my now fiancee. You can talk with people and it has a quasi social media aspect to it that you can also use to chat with more people, I live in a major city and managed to talk to a handful of people on the time I was there, some of those were started by them too. The chatting wasn't limited iirc it's a friends/dating app.

Granted I was rated 8/10 on the rate me subreddit so take that as you will.

Riven , to Technology in Microsoft has gone too far: including a Game Pass ad in the Settings app ushers in a whole new age of ridiculous over-advertising
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The only thing stopping me is stupid vanguard for league. I'm close to just getting a clean league only mini pc and having my main one be Linux. I'll have to check out bazzite. I play the usual minecraft, terraria, ff14, indie games mostly so hopefully they run fine. I don't think I've played a AAA game in like 7 years.

Riven , to No Stupid Questions in What's up with all the "___punk" stuff?
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Love you too, hope you have a lovely day.

Riven , to No Stupid Questions in is this the right way to establish boundaries with my nosy coworkers at the hospital?
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Someone mentioned it down the thread but I say non committal stuff like
'I'll have to sit on it'
'it be that way sometimes'
'that's interesting'
'I don't know much about that'
'not sure to be honest'
'oh yea?'
'I hear ya'
'if it makes them happy'
'that's how some people like it'
'I haven't looked into it'
'I haven't considered it'
'that's what I hear'

It all depends on context but I use these replies to let them know I hear them without picking a side if that makes sense. It's best to act like you aren't sure or don't know when they ask about stuff.

Here's an example from yesterday from the trump Biden debate.

They asked me if I was gonna watch and I just said I don't know maybe, I was gonna leave it at that but they kept trying to sports team for Trump and pushing me to answer what I thought about them sitting so close. I took that chance to say I don't really talk about politics at work, all the while typing away and working. That seemed to work and they took the hint and stopped.

It helps if you always act like you don't know/aren't sure about things.

Riven , to No Stupid Questions in is this the right way to establish boundaries with my nosy coworkers at the hospital?
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I did the same, I'm polite, helpful and pleasant to be around. I also keep everyone at arms length and am very careful with how I phrase stuff, people in the office love me and understand I won't be sharing personal stuff and I'm not interested in their personal stuff. If they wanna talk weather, TV shows or games I'm fine with that.

I was always polite and vague with how I declined their questions early on and eventually they got the hints.

Riven , to No Stupid Questions in What's up with all the "___punk" stuff?
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Lul I've had to enlighten people on that last point of yours. Me not dressing punk doesn't mean I'm not, it just means you won't see it coming when I throw a brick through your window cause I look normal in khaki shorts.

Riven , to Technology in Netflix mulls introducing free ad-supported tier. The circle is complete
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Anime was bad for this too, especially the dubbed kind and one piece.

Riven , to memes in "In fact, let me take a few pages to describe how much I can't describe this"
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Yep, which for them it was fine cause they pioneered the genres but modern writers can't coast on that.

Riven , to World News in Hong Kong says school children sang anthem too softly
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Not all states or schools. At least my siblings and I never had to. We lived in 3 states and went do dozens of schools between the 4 of us.

Riven , to memes in "In fact, let me take a few pages to describe how much I can't describe this"
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My problem with that is that it's always the same descriptors for that unimaginable horror. Makes them boring if it's always the same.

Riven , to Technology in China is attempting to mirror the entire GitHub over to their own servers, users report
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Might be because of our approaches?

Your's comes across as a sort of whatabout that nobody asked for and mine is just a statement of fact related to what you mentioned.

It's not inaccurate to say that the Chinese government has a tighter leash on all business in their country than the US has in theirs though.

Riven , to Technology in China is attempting to mirror the entire GitHub over to their own servers, users report
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Yea they would have to do their bidding if the government came knocking with subpoenas.

Riven , to Ask Lemmy in What's the most stupid trend (or fad) you participated in yourself?
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It was a fair trade in hindsight lul. Got me a lovely fiancee now and I'm much happier.

Riven , to Ask Lemmy in What's the most stupid trend (or fad) you participated in yourself?
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I had so many from just eating chips as a kid in Mexico. They still make em, my ex brought me a couple dragon ball super ones from when she went on vacation to Mexico to cheat on me.

Riven , to Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ in Pity, really.
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Might be a bit dramatic.
All sectors of industry are using more and more tech, we have more people in the workforce now that are tech literate than we did decades ago.

These are random numbers to explain my point.
Look at it this way, in the 90s maybe 20 percent of people knew how to use computers but 12 percent of those were truly tech savvy and knew the ins and out of using a pc.

Now a days 90 percent of people know how to use a pc (regardless of the form it presents itself, be it pc, phone, tablet, etc) but only like 30 percent of them might be truly tech savvy.

It's still a step up from back then, and because of the nature of tech in industry there's always gonna be plenty of people who know how to use pcs well and if there aren't then that's just more money for us who do know.

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