I don’t see Gnome fans brigading KDE threads and circlejerking about KDE being awful and the devs being cunts.
I'm a Gnome user for like 20 years, I don't prefer KDE but glad it's there. I never have but would be happy to support KDE and understand any devs being cunts on occasion, I'm sure it's stressful. I'm glad they are there so I don't have to use proprietary software.