Some hobbies haven't fully materialized because small things will get me dysregulated. Frustration builds/#monitropic mind/ identifying flaws, etc. I'm able to be kind, gentle & patient w/ clients who struggle w/ #perfectionism because it's something I've been slowly trying to overcome my entire life; partially because of my high demand religion, & also now I'm recognizing not only my parents' parenting style, but #autism too. 😮💨 I'm learning to laugh now.
@Ilovechai@actuallyautistic@autisticadvocacy
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I'm laughing too, kindly, I promise. ❤️
Your nails are about as long as my fingers, we have such different troubles 😀
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Your voice is amazing!
I wonder if we could organize some kind of fedi almost-live song-performance-posting chain... I enjoy performing too, but always tend to feel like the feeling is not reciprocated.
May make those uninterested happy for me to go elsewhere.
I don't know enough about the fediverse though. I've tried to find the hashtags that make sense to me. I also have mixed feelings because I shared it with the autistic groups since this is my stim/special interest & that's the space that supposedly is welcoming & compassionate. But it's sure awkward not deleting those groups every time I reply because I want it as a thread for my own profile 🤷♀️
(FWIW, I follow those group-bots and that's how I saw your posts.)
I wonder if there are any private auti/ND support groups; seems like that should be doable -- the bots would just repost everything as followers-only instead of boosting them.
Yup, me too. But it has to be a song I know well, because if I can't remember the words that's just more frustration on top of what I'm already feeling.