Countess425 ,
@Countess425@lemmy.world avatar

When people turn a popular post into an Oscars Acceptance Speech

ETA: wow thanks for the upvotes!

ETA2: omg my first gold award?? I couldn't have made it without my mom and Jesus through whom all things are possible

ProvokedGamer ,
@ProvokedGamer@lemmy.ca avatar

This.

ETA: thanks for one upvote!😃

ETA2: thanks for two upvotes!😀😀

ETA3: woah?! 3?!?!?! thanks for three upvotes!😁😁😁

ETA4: this is more upvotes than I have money in my bank account! thanks for four upvotes!💵💵💵

ETA5: INASANE!!! thanks for five upvotes!😍😍😍

ETA6: I’ve never had more than SIX!!! thanks for six upvotes! 😱😱😱😱😱

ETA7: thanks for seven upvotes! I want to thank my mom, my brother, Jesus, Scott, Bill Gates, and my cat!!!🤗🤗

ETA8: What? Why y’all downvoting me now? Bring it back to seven!😤😤😤

ETA9: Unbelievable. -400 upvotes now. I lost my house, my car, and my job because of this! 😔😔😣😖😖😖😭😭

/s

Stefh ,
@Stefh@lemmy.world avatar

😂 this really annoys me on Quora. I never understood why one feels the necessity to do so.

Psythik ,
@Psythik@lemm.ee avatar

I also hate "happy cake day", and "this". Especially "this". It's a worthless comment that adds nothing more to the discussion than a simple upvote.

calavera ,
@calavera@lemm.ee avatar

This

mamaMiata ,

This may be an unpopular option since I've already seen it across lemmy, but the ____porn communities. I'd like to browse pictures of nice landscapes or exotic cars without worry about someone around me noticing "PORN" on my screen.

At this point it seems very old internet, something that made sense when those communities were established, but now is unnecessary gratuitous and not socially acceptable.

Skiv ,

Damn, I had forgotten how obnoxious that was on Reddit. Blocked all of those years ago because it was just unnecessary and a gross way to qualify otherwise unremarkable photos.

DrMango ,

I saw a post about a community created here called "pixel passport" which I thought was a hell of a lot better that "earth porn."

ImOnLemmyWow ,

EarthPixels. CarPixels. PornPixels. HistoryPixels.
This could work.

MrPear ,

I really like that name. Way better than Earthporn. Thank you for sharing, I subscribed!

Link: !pixelpassport

Smooth ,

Can we stop talking about Reddit? Let it go.

negativeyoda ,

This

(I'm so sorry. I couldn't resist)

strawberrysocial ,

You maybe should have tried harder to resist.

Ddhuud ,

Hey people grieve at different speeds. Some people got to acceptance on the same day, others are still in denial.

Fiivemacs ,

...there is nothing to grieve..it is a website...

Ddhuud ,

You are allowed to grieve whatever you feel you lost, even a website.

Psythik ,
@Psythik@lemm.ee avatar

I was a daily reddit user since 2008. I don't know anything else. The withdrawal symptoms were absolutely brutal until I figured out how Lemmy works.

Leaving reddit was harder than quitting nicotine. Let me grieve.

Frostwolf ,
@Frostwolf@lemmy.world avatar

This! We all mourn at our own pace. Some people may still be at the anger stage.

Kyrgizion ,

Yes, Lettit!

Veltoss ,

All the mindless circlejerking and echochambers. I hope the federation helps split up communities about the same topic which should help prevent echochambers from being as strong, and keep people seeing more information and opinions about the same topic.

I was so tired of seeing blatant lies and misinformation being spread just because it fit people's narratives. Like those "dawn project" tesla videos, people hate musk so much (which I'm sure all the much worse billionaires love), so they feel they must hate teslas too, so they keep spreading those videos that have been debunked and proven incredibly questionable that were made by a competitor that's been failing to compete. That's just one tiny example. Don't even get me started on the outright lights and misinformation people spread about crypto.

And of course if anyone ever tried to correct anyone, share actual facts, real articles from trusted sources, anything that went against a particular thread's circlejerk, you would just be harassed, personally insulted, and downvoted immediately. It was so hilarious and sad spending time responding to someone's bullshit with real information and a real argument just for them to do a one-liner personal insult based on nothing, because they knew they didn't actually have anything but the circlejerk is all that really ever mattered.

I'm ranting, but this attitude people have of just not caring about reality when the lies fit what the circlejerking hivemind wants is one of my biggest gripes about modern internet and it's incredibly dangerous. It's exactly the mindset that trump supporters have that allows them to believe whatever the fuck they want and that led to people dying at the capitol, and it's the type of mindset that will eventually lead to far worse things if social media companies don't do more to combat misinformation and echochambers.

Crampon ,

Reddit and hating people is really strange. They hate Musk, which is fine. But the arguments are always how bad the cars are. (They're not), hiwbhis rocket blew up (it was predicted it would) without admitting he owns the most successful car brands right now, and is big in space programs.

Also with Trump. Disliking him is great. But reddit focuses on his hair and skin colour instead of exposing his shitty politics or disregard for national security.

Reddit sucks at informative chooses because every challenge to an established echo chamber gets glassed in an instant.

meldroc ,

Safe spaces for fascism. Spez let The_Donald and its imitators fester for years, thus turning Reddit into a de facto Nazi Bar. Thus years of harassing non-fascists & minorities, brigading, spouting bigotry, disinformation and toxicity while the admins yawned.

lemming007 ,

Umm, you're aware that anyone can stand up a Lemmy instance? Communists and fascists alike, you can just defederate from any instance you don't like.

mindrover ,

Unfortunately fascist spaces will exist and cannot be prevented because of the core nature of Lemmy/fediverse architecture. Anyone can start their own instance and post whatever they want.

However, if the main popular instances defederate with them, then most users won't have to see those posts.

meldroc ,

Yep. Defederation's the best weapon here. Keep the fascists ostracized!

MisterD ,

AFAIK the following have been defederated or blocked otherwise:
-theDonald
-exploding heads
-meta (on going)

magnetosphere ,
@magnetosphere@lemmy.world avatar

People who don’t know/acknowledge the difference between “free speech” and “hate speech”

b3nsn0w ,
@b3nsn0w@pricefield.org avatar

unfortunately lemmy already has those people, but luckily enough they seem to organize in tidy communities that are easy to defederate

Moshpotatoes91 ,

"Thanks for the gold kind stranger"

ColonelSanders ,
@ColonelSanders@lemmy.world avatar

You forgot to add the "Edit: " part because they always have to come back and edit every 2 minutes.

Edit: "Whoa my first gold! Thanks!"

Edit2: "Wow this is silly, thanks everyone!"

Edit3: "While you're here, let me tell you my life story."

EditAdNauseum: High pitched ear ringing

throbbing_banjo ,
@throbbing_banjo@lemmy.world avatar

Karma-whoring. It's already started with the stupid "upote my can of beans" posts... Dude nobody cares about your internet points, either activity participate or fuck off to Instagram.

Skyrkazm ,

This. It's why I hope we don't have any sort of Karma system on Lemmy.

throbbing_banjo ,
@throbbing_banjo@lemmy.world avatar

There's just no need for it.
I like the ability to upvote/downvote posts for visibility, but a karma or point system just encourages whoring, which leads to a dirth of lazy and low quality content

Anticorp ,

On that note, Lemmy should hide the score and just sort based on it. Having a visible score drives people to say things they think are popular instead of what they actually think.

A_Random_Idiot ,
@A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world avatar

Up/Down vote systems also suck, and are inherently problematic, and encourage unhealthy behaviors. I say get rid of them.

Skyrkazm ,

The one benefit of Lemmy is that you can see the total upvotes and down votes. So if a comment has 5k up votes, you'll also see that it has 4k down votes.

Rather than 1k up votes like on reddit. This makes it far easier to see if bullshit is being spewed rather than just bot spammed up votes as often. It makes bots less effective imo. But what do I know, I'm no social media developer lmao

A_Random_Idiot ,
@A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world avatar

the upvote/downvote system is still problematic, because its roots are in exploiting addiction mechanisms via giving people that dopamine rush when they get high upvotes, and making them chase that high again.

I really miss the pre-social media days when we had forums instead of...whatever reddit/lemmy are, when there was no upvotes, no karma, no nothing. You just made a post, and people replied to it. interaction without gamification.

Ensign_Crab ,

Moderators who coddle bigots.

Bigots.

pizza_rolls ,
@pizza_rolls@kbin.social avatar

This is my #1 also. So many people "just asking questions"

I also hate the circlejerk of people going "I cannot possibly comprehend being gay/trans/disabled/whatever but I let them do what they want!" They're not aliens, you can listen to them explain what they are going through and have empathy. It's not very complicated.

aleph ,
@aleph@lemm.ee avatar

r/moderatepolitics was the worst for that.

Their moderation policy basically allowed any abhorrent view as long as it was expressed in a "civil" manner.

Trolls and racists could say things like "well, in my humble opinion, black people are just inherently violent and unintelligent" and anyone who got irate and called them out would get a warning and/or banned.

Ensign_Crab ,

In my experience, the more obsessed a sub's mods were about civil language, the more "be civil" meant "don't sass the nazis."

aleph ,
@aleph@lemm.ee avatar

Won't anyone think of the nazis?!

galloog1 ,

There is a decent argument historically that communism and other left movements are extremist, racist, and anti-lgbtq. When you start banning concepts, you open your communities up to several things.

  1. Group think
  2. Banning of other radical ideologies that you may agree with
  3. You alienate those people from exposure to better concepts
  4. You jump start compaction cycles for large scale propaganda organizations that could lead to actual violence
Ensign_Crab ,

I said "bigots" and you immediately jumped to "whatabout communists?!"

galloog1 ,

I provided four reasons why this was relevant and you jumped from communism to whataboutism? Talk about being intellectually lazy (Or a state-sponsored account)

Ensign_Crab ,

I provided four reasons why this was relevant

After starting right out the gate with:

There is a decent argument historically that communism and other left movements are extremist, racist, and anti-lgbtq.

We're talking about today. On a relatively new community. Frankly, I see no reason to tolerate the bigots you're so keen on coddling until they take over and make this another version of reddit's the_donald, complete with organizing nazi rallies. Particularly not with the vague and spurious "there is a decent argument" hand wavy FUD that you didn't explain as a justification. Are a lot of people saying it?

Moving onto your 4 points, let's look at how they worked so well over at reddit, with all the virtuous acceptance of intolerance and nazi-coddling they've done, shall we?

Group think

No, reddit has never had groupthink. Not for an instant. Thank god they let the bigots in otherwise they'd have groupthink!

Banning of other radical ideologies that you may agree with

Post anything on conservative even slightly counter to their bigoted orthodoxy and see how that goes. Hell, suggest that fascism is not amenable to reason and must be opposed with force anywhere on reddit and see how that goes.

You alienate those people from exposure to better concepts

They had abundant exposure to better concepts on reddit. Look how well that's worked so far. Clearly the answer is to let them spread their shit all over lemmy.

You jump start compaction cycles for large scale propaganda organizations that could lead to actual violence

the_donald literally promoted and helped organize a nazi rally where Heather Heyer was run over and killed by a nazi's car. On lovely ol' bigot-coddling reddit. The sub was not banned for years afterwards. I do not want that for lemmy. I left reddit the instant an alternative that didn't welcome bigotry got enough users.

Not everywhere has to entertain bigots. There's already too many places that do. A community that welcomes bigots is unwelcoming to everyone but bigots. But holy shit, does it ever drive engagement.

Or a state-sponsored account

Oh, we're throwing around wild accusations now?

KingScoob ,
@KingScoob@lemmy.world avatar

"This."
These comments add nothing to the discussion. I get that people want to show their support an argument/content, but that's what upvotes are for. If you want to show your support for something, then at least try to think of something worthwhile to add to the discussion while expressing your support.

GwiwerGoch ,

A tolerance for the propagation of disinformation.

Room for disagreements is necessary, but so is stopping people who never cared about agreeing in the first place. Giving the dishonest this freedom has only silenced the honest by burdening them with layers of crap to cut through before their speech is heard.

hotdogthud ,

Spez.

rob_t_firefly ,
@rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world avatar

Sponsored posts, banner ads, algorithms, and other advertising-industry fuckery.

A reply that's just "r/(some subreddit name)."

A robot trying to sell stolen fan art printed onto t-shirts.

People childishly self-censoring non-sweary words. "Sex" isn't a bad word, but writing "s*x" suggests you probably shouldn't be allowed on social media at your stage of development.

DrSleepless ,

Spez

off_apparition ,

Thanks for the gold kind stranger

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