@olena@DoctorDisco@actuallyautistic I've discovered that small companies are better for me. I can talk to the owner(s) directly and negotiate things without any "I'll see what the boss thinks".
The flip side is that when it doesn't work out I have to quit.
Current job we've all agreed that telling the boss medical stuff is BAD. We all got told when someone was doing IVF and that means everyone just says "I'm sick" when they're using sick leave. Literally just that.