@Tim_McTuffty@actuallyautistic I have also found that I do better when organising a social thing than just as an attendee because I understand my role and what is going on, etc.
I host some events locally (not at the moment cos burnout and social politics stuff) and I enjoy those more than social events I have just attended.
I also do better with large groups than small or one to one even though the idea of large groups feels awful. In one to one or small groups I find it always ends badly.