@Tim_McTuffty@actuallyautistic I have consistently found that in person people are not worth the stress. Whether it's because I suck at real time interactions because of delayed processing or something else I don't know, but every time I try I am reminded of why I avoid in person people. I would say most experiences for me have led to additional trauma.
I think there's something to be said for the "right" people, but for me the right people seem to only exist online.