@MxVerda@Uair@actuallyautistic
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I had my theory about childrearing that led me there, I wasn't thinking about paranoia when I saw that every spanked person likely feels this way, but that train of thought, Antisocialization Theory, just keeps giving and giving.
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It doesn't mean some folks couldn't use some help, of course. But I suspect uair is way ahead of us about all that.