Get yourself checked your for adhs or similar executive functioning disorders. It's the must frustrating thing in the world to want to do something and not being able to get into gear.
How would not tolerating look like? Let's start with you as an example, maybe your loved ones too. And maybe look at the horrors of a one child policy in China before we start following that idea again.
Having a good crypto exchange locally solves this. I sent a few thousand dollars to a cousin via a ethereum layer2 and it cost literally cents to send. Also helps with the legal hassle as exchanges need to know their customers.