lifewithtrees , to ActuallyAutistic group
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So for the last ten years, my partner has been mowing the lawn on Fridays every summer so that the bugs are settled and the yard is less buggy for our time together on the weekends.

This is very sweet and thoughtful of them and it is also something I did not notice was happening, though they tell me they’ve told me 40 times in 10 years.

I just never noticed or remembered. 😬😞It makes relationships (and gratitude for others actions) difficult

lifewithtrees OP ,
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@actuallyadhd @actuallyautistic anyone else have their own version of this

Poor noticing + bad memory = low gratitude = relationship challenges?

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