You can’t really say it’s “their government” when the Palestinians in Gaza haven’t had free and fair elections in years.
Many people live under governments that are not democracies, those are still their governments. Last time Gaza did have free elections, they elected Hamas.
Hamas has fucked the civilians in both Israel and Gaza.
They sure have.
Civilians of either country who don’t support the aggressive actions of “their side” (countinued settlement, terrorism) shouldn’t be suffering as a result.
And yet that's predictably what always happens in war. I'm sure that there were many innocent civilians who opposed Nazi policies in Germany, yet still shared consequences of the regime that they lived under.