@catswhocode@actuallyautistic yes, it’s how I figured out, I was autistic, at least one of the reasons, my voice and intentions didn’t match apparently…which I’ve got to tell you it’s confusing as shit, when people take you wrong when they are close people or coworkers. I had one of my oldest friends tell me my speech was off who I knew since a teenager, one day all the thoughts aligned. Three months later I was dx, well because I already was dx and didn’t know.