@roknrol@Zumbador@actuallyautistic I'm so accustomed to trying to please people and not cause too much inconvenience that, in my case, 'I don't mind' = 'whatever's easier for you'.
When I was 10 or 11, my friend's dad asked me if I wanted potatoes or chips for dinner and I was like 'whichever you'd prefer to cook', and it was only when he pressed me on it that I felt okay to say I wanted chips more.