I say that only autistic people actually communicate in language. Normal people hear something akin to the bleating of livestock, and modulate their words whether they want to antagonize or soothe. I find this absurdly frustrating, especially since they never even tell me that's what they're doing. I call it, "throwing my words in the garbage".
Kurt Vonnegut said the content of almost all human conversation is, "I'm alive and so are you."