@arcadetoken@dramypsyd@actuallyautistic Not related to this particular phrase, I was once invited up for coffee and replied that it was way too late in the night to have coffee, but I'd come in, sure.
Needless to say, we had a nice chat, and at some point I went home.
In hindsight, both the invitation and my reaction make sense. At the time I was mostly confused by how weirdly that person acted around me the following days.