I know what you mean though as I feel similar. It’s ‘funny’ that I can give advice to use the tags however you like but I am not doing that - oops! 🫣 I think me being a metaphorical wallflower is a survival habit that’s hard for me to ditch. My current strategy is using them when I know I want to connect with other autistic people… whether it’s to ask for advice, share something that relates to being autistic or something along those lines. But these are not rules! Just my way of justifying using them… and I could rethink that 🤔
Remember, anyone can take control of their timeline and mute people they don’t want to see, etc. Plus, as you know because you’re one of us, we’re a welcoming bunch… so… 💟