I am so bad at weekends and now my work week is settling into a routine thanks to my VA, the weekend issue is getting worse.
Like I desperately need every day to be the same or for "different" days to be planned well in advance so I know what to expect when they arrive. And I have no idea how to do that with weekends because they involve other people and weather and stuff I can't control.
@alexisbushnell@actuallyautistic Oof yes, this is a biggie for me. The relief and relaxation of weekday routines means weekends, especially Saturdays, are mega stressful.
I would really like a solution to this. It’s quite a high priority for similar reasons to you - it involves other people.
All I know how to do now is to ask about the weekend (especially Saturday) plans the day before. But even then, anything could happen.
I try to keep my own thread of something I do every day to I feel like every day is similar - but right now that’s uni work, and that’s all going to end at the end of this month! Trying to plan my next short/medium-term projects so so can continue, but doubt I’ll be as consistent.