@theautisticcoach my brain doesn't seem to encode where things are unless i place them there myself. (sometimes not even then....) so if someone else moves something of mine, even with permission and explanation, it doesn't work for me and that item may seem to be lost. because the item's real world location won't match where i have placed it in my mental model. it's such a struggle because i'll even ask someone to help me tidy, but can't find anything they've arranged and get frustrated with them for helping.