@pathfinder@bhawthorne@olena@actuallyautistic@devxvda ...specifically holidays alone in my apartment, i struggle between a new life in Chicago and being pulled right back to just months ago when I was (not happily, but still) married for all these years and, being such, was part of very different activity levels and vibes around holidays.
Has me now preparing for what might be a really difficult 4th of July having been basically the mayor of the 4th of July in my town the last few years