ashleyspencer , I think it’s safe to assess the results of my poll.
Totaled across 3 social media sites:
583 people voted
I’m autistic / I’m ADHD - 165 votes
I’m autistic / Have ADHD - 360 votes
Have autism / Have ADHD - 53 votes
Have autism / I’m ADHD - 5 votes
There’s no right or wrong answer with how you choose to identify yourself.