@n69n@Starbrother@theautisticcoach@actuallyautistic OMG, this!!! Even if I now realise, bit late, that questions are seen as insubordination, I still wanna/need to know the answer. Also, I don’t think i really perceive questions as questioning my authority, so it is puzzling... is it really why NTs ask questions rather than, lets see, wanting to know the answer? If it is only sometimes ok, I have no idea what context is which... I don't read minds, so questions are the only way to know in my book... but if it is bad to ask questions, I'm stuck...