Let's say i choose being in the woods with a bear over a woman. Does that make me sexist? I personally dont see it. Im not setting a different standard for men or women. Maybe I'm just gay, or afraid of women. I dont see how it's sexist if i say, im more afraid of x than y. Therefore, i choose y. Maybe, I have more bad experiences with x, leaving y. Sexism would be to set different standards for the sexes where this question isn't setting different standards for men and women. It's pointing out that the already existent standards for men and women and how different they are.