Apologies for going somewhat off-topic, but if someone posts to the @actuallyautistic group, please don’t remove that reference in your reply.
Groups actively push replies to the accounts following them. It’s the only way for small instances (like mine) to get to see comments by accounts they don’t follow, and maybe their server never even federated with yet.
I learn so much from these threads and would like not to miss any of your thoughts!💛