@Zumbador@actuallyautistic now I know that running a conversation in my head is part of being autistic and that I need to mentally split between what my head tells me and how reality is. So my suggestion is to check your internal energy levels and take a gamble once in a while. And know it's okay to stop at any time.
People in general have the best intentions, but its not always smooth and this is why I prefer talking to people face to face. You get time to figure things out.