Well thats a condemnation of yourself, then. Not of me.
Cause if you cant see what engagement, and by extention, legitimization of their points due to that engagement, has done by this point.. Then honestly you're either blind and ignorant, or one of their agents trying to open the door with a soft approach..and I will always be antagonistic to them. If you find offense to that, then you just reveal that you're on the wrong side of that line.