Fully agree. That's also the main reason I am using Notion even though it's not FOSS, not encrypted etc.
I was fine using Obsidian (even though it's not FOSS either, but you own your data) but I can't figure out a good way to track books and quotes plus my opinion about them while querying them the same way it works in the database with Notion. Dataview is great for many things but doesn't have pagination etc.