That's a big part of it. I don't hate conservatives.
They are actively trying to make the world worse, so I'm not going to be sad if/when the ideology disappears, but as a whole, they aren't bad people. They are my family and coworkers. They are decent people who have been taught to fear the enemy.
I don't hate them, I pity them.
Although, I might also be a little jealous of their ignorance fueled bliss.