You_are_dust

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Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? (Edit: No, she is not gaslighting me, but may have some other issues.)

Today, before taking an Uber home, she sent me a text wanting me to be downstairs on the street to greet her as the Uber arrives. I read it and told her that yes, I'll be there. I didn't notice any further text because I was in the middle of something....

You_are_dust ,

I can't tell if this is a joke post. Assuming that it's not, there's a lot of missing context. If she wanted you to meet her and you got that text, why didn't you? Do you live somewhere that human trafficking is that much a part of daily life that this is an issue? You make comments like a lot of her irrational actions are normal things, which they probably shouldn't be. She wants assurance that you'll track down and murder a trafficking group like Liam Nesson and then switches gears immediately to what about the cat? I hope this is a joke post.

You_are_dust ,

So you're saying it is pretty irrational for her to be so extremely worried about being kidnapped? Is she a very anxious and nervous person? It sounds like she was dropped off very close to home. Is she one to turn nothing into something like this? From an outside perspective, her reaction seems way out of line.

You_are_dust ,

Since she's not normally like this, you really need to talk to her to figure out what exactly happened that set off this series of events.

You_are_dust ,

Possibly. Ultimately there needs to be better communication between both of them.

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