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They aren't using enough fear politics. The entire planet should be afraid of a fascist United States. Trump will tank the global economy. Trump will be more hostile to other nations than even liberal imperialists. There is no upside.

It's even better for accelerationists if the systemfails under liberals. If it fails under a fascist, liberals can just claim it only failed because fascists gained control.

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No fucking shit genius. Ofc they're taking advantage of the situation. That's what the more left wing party does. However, not voting is forfeiting your choice. Unless you have a large, organized coalition who otherwise would vote, boycotts aren't very effective. This is especially true when the worse choice is about as bad as choices can get. Unfortunately, there's no use explaining project 2025 when your opinion isn't based on facts.

You think I disagree with you out of ignorance, but it's your wistful thinking creating fake options. You're just coping with the depressing reality. You believe not voting for Biden is an option because you really want there to be another way. You need to recognize your actual situation before you can find a way out of it. Acknowledgement is not the same as saying things are good and should continue.

IS =/= OUGHT!

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It can, but it can also be a straight negative with no upsides.

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even when they were attacked to an idiot, a malformed hunchback, a ne'er-do-well or the bastard progeny of a mixed coupling.

The serfs probably become more fit than the nobility over time because they had far more evolutionary pressure and diversity. The bloodline rules limited the nobility more than anything. One capable person doesn't change much genetically in the grand scheme of things. Nepotism and inequality are anti-meritocratic.

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Royal families are just so sad and pathetic. Ultimately, everyone is worse off, even them.

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This image gets worse the more you look at it 😨

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I'm in favor of royal exploration therapy in the meantime, just so he can understand all his options. We'll ask relevant questions like:

  • Do you think about your title when you masterbate?

  • Were you ever touched inappropriately as a child?

  • What role do you enjoy in sex?

  • Does your royal... confusion stem from how it was modeled in your family?

  • Do you get aroused at the thought of suppressing peasant uprisings?

  • Are you aware that you'll never be a real leader? You'll never be valid without becoming authoritarian and suppressing free speech. You can always desist at any time, but there will be irreversible damage if you change your mind too late.

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There are some unique reasons that men are more lonely, even if we all are as well. They don't show weakness to their friends or help each other out as much emotionally. The vast majority of men have no support network for this sort of thing. The bros will help out materially, but less so emotionally.

Capitalism is still more to blame than gender for lonely men, but they have an extra disadvantage. We all need societal change, but men have a harder time finding that sense of belonging than women. It's how gangs, militaries, and fascists lure in boys. They promise a place for men, even if it's as a disposable tool. Liberals used to promise men a place as successful workers, but that place has disappeared with the middle class, while fascists get to blame feminists for capitalism's effects.

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It can never be the same day everywhere on earth at the same time. As soon as the final time zone enters Thursday, the first time zone enters Friday. This annoying ass dog is always wrong for somebody. He can literally never be correct. This is basic physics. The only calculations he should be doing is how to live in a better meme.

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That ain't everything. If he was just a cute dog saying "have a good Thursday," I'd look forward to seeing him every week. Instead, he proudly tells me it's Thursday every Wednesday. If it was just endearing, I'd love it, but because it's more of a joke, it gets annoying after a while. Endearing stuff will never make me actively mad like an overused joke.

Him being wrong isn't funny anymore. The only humor now comes at the expense of my annoyance. While it was fun finding ways to insult him, I'm mostly bored at this point. I don't think I can salvage enjoyment out of it anymore.

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"Every moment I spend with you, I wish time would stand still so I could enjoy the moment for eternity. I feel hollow and dull when I spend a day without you. My heart buckles when you weep and surges when you laugh. When you smile at me, I float. Your disappointment makes me sink through the floor. My mind races when you don't respond, only to clear once you do. I adore you 💗"

That's so sweet! I'm glad she cares about me, but I'm sure it doesn't mean anything deeper. People don't feel this way about me.

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I wrote it 🥺

TotallynotJessica ,
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That may or may not be an direction I've mulled over for a number of years before our current moment :3

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I need the rich and the bigoted to live in my head. I can never forget that they are the danger, the biggest threat to my safety. They aren't living rent free, as I change my behavior as much as possible to undermine them. If they weren't on my mind, I'd fall more for their lies and wouldn't be able to fight back.

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For some people, yes. Most people aren't worth it, but many are.

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I don't know if forgiving is the same thing as no longer dwelling on the feeling. Forgiveness to me means that I'll take no additional negative action towards them if given the opportunity.

It's actually pretty easy for me to forgive. All they need to do is admit wrongdoing and convince me they have no motivation to do it again. I'll even show kindness towards someone I haven't forgiven if I think it will prevent them from causing future harm.

I'm not a hateful person, but I've learned that some people cannot be won over with kindness alone. Those that bully the weak will require strength to oppose. As long as they feel like they're above you in the hierarchy, love alone won't work. Only when they feel on equal footing to you will they cooperate and listen.

I can let go of hate without forgiving. I've learned how to move on because I don't forgive. Not forgiving gives me security in future interactions, as I work towards being able to forgive. I've needed to master my emotions for other reasons, so I know my approach wouldn't be possible for most people.

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True. That's why hate should be relinquished unless you have actual plans to use it. Even then, it needs to be toned down to keep a level head.

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I have mixed feelings as someone who understands the industry. I didn't care for La La Land, but it still represents the hard work and artistry of hundreds of people, many of whom cared deeply about doing fantastic work. That mistake probably felt terrible for those people on a different level compared to simply not winning.

If it were for most other categories, it wouldn't be as big of a deal. Best picture categories honor the whole team rather than just specific departments or roles. Even those of us who hate the Oscars would feel bad if that happened to us. It's a shitty show, but being recognized for your work still feels good.

It was funny in how bad it made the Academy look, but it was also cruel of the Academy to allow the fuck up to happen. It reminds us how little the workers matter compared to them making money. Owners who minimize the awards and in place of gags to keep people from getting bored.

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That was hilarious, especially because Moonlight was so good. I've watched it at varying points on my journey of self discovery, and it's only connected with me deeper each time. It's funny that it's always someone else who puts it on. I wouldn't have chosen to rewatch it, but I'm happy I did.

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Texas is America's tits 😢

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Any Canadians want to help me recreate this geography? 🥺

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Only if you're ok with me being a silly lil klutz 👉👈

TotallynotJessica ,
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Nobody loves how things have played out more than Nazis!

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It's over. Drake did not understand the game he was playing. He would've been better off ignoring Kendrick from the start. Instead, he thought this would just be a business opportunity; an unofficial collab that would boost both of their careers. Unfortunately for Drake, Kendrick seems to care more about tearing down him than boosting himself in any way.

Pedo allegations like this are hard to recover from, especially for a known creepy dude like Drake. Even I know about it, and I'm a total outsider. I wouldn't let kids anywhere near someone who's done the things he's openly admitted to. You don't text underage actors like that. Red flag the size of a skyscraper.

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The NYT is a crypto-fascist rag. Corporate masters are putting their weight on the mainstream media to promote fascism beyond what even most liberals can put up with. They need to realize how much the rich want fascism yesterday. They cannot be won over anymore. They've made up their mind.

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There are important ballot measures in a ton of states this year as well. If you're in a blue area, there might even be a decent candidate or 2. Always check to see what's happening in your community, if only to prevent harmful stuff from slipping through unopposed.

Your landlord and bosses vote, so you should as well. Don't make things easy for them. Make them require voter suppression to stand a chance. Power will never be given, so it must be seized.

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It's even worse than that. Individuals are a vessel for those gametes, not the gametes themselves. I'm sorry, but sperm aren't fucking people Robert Rowling. You aren't your cum or your period. Inhaling pollen during spring isn't killing trees.

Joanne Galbraith's conservative gender ideology values genes and bloodlines more than people. Living a good life doesn't matter, only reproducing like e coli.

Phobes want the world to make sense because they think it'll fill the emptiness in their soul. It'll never work. The void can't be filled that way.

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"But I could in the past" or "I was meant to" or some other contrived bullshit that gets the end result she wants.

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Eh. Despite its problems, Harry Potter was fairly decent, especially in terms of having characters people care about. The world building was mid and there was bigotry against people outside of England, but there is a lot to like about it. It had a huge Fandom, many of whom were queer. That series earned her most of her wealth and popularity originally.

I think it was possible for her to have grown out of her conservative worldview if she was willing to. Unfortunately, it's hard to critically examine your beliefs. Her financial success probably affected the chances of her knowing queer people personally, which decreased her motivation to understand us. If she wasn't successful, she might have been a better person than she is now. Then again, maybe not. At least she wouldn't have caused as much harm.

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I'm not sure if anyone could help with that. The best nicknames are specific to that person, so any suggestions wouldn't make sense without knowing what type of person I'm naming. Just identify their vibe and find a word to describe it that isn't already taken.

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Capitalists are always the ones who expect free lunches. They think they can squeeze workers without consequence, but that pressure just erodes the foundation of society and drives instability through various mechanisms. Populism, crime, war, and other destabilizing trends are a natural consequence of fucking around. Propaganda and distractions can only buy so much time before they get to find out.

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The issue is that they aren't as smart as they think they are. They've created a more dangerous world for themselves and their children, and while they'll still be at the top, their position is far less stable. They're still trapped on this planet with us, and are still vulnerable to the apocalyptic problems they've caused.

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I know! It's my favorite Battlestar Galactica spin-off :3

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This is absurd enough for me to not see it that way. Yes, US President Joe Biden definitely goes to a random Canadian playground to suck toes in a tube slide. Even if he did, it honestly seems consensual based on the graffiti(real. 😎).

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Those slides aren't that curved because they need to be wide enough to fit both you and Joe Biden.

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Liberals are cowardly in regards to limiting capitalism to preserve liberalism. It's hard to stand against the rich, so they don't, weakening liberal democracy to the core and letting fascists grow stronger.

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