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What does a world without Airbnb look like? ( www.bbc.com )

On 21 June, Barcelona mayor Jaume Collboni announced plans to ban short term rentals in the city starting in November 2028. The decision is designed to solve what Collboni described as "Barcelona's biggest problem" – the housing crisis that has seen residents and workers priced out of the market – by returning the 10,000...

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I think the stated purpose of Airbnb is fine, allowing people to rent out their homes for short term while they're off vacation or something. I think the reality of what actually happens is pretty not okay, people buying properties all over and only ever renting them using Airbnb without ever actually living there and while preventing anyone else from living there

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Fun fact fyi, unlike Reddit, post titles are editable on Lemmy

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Almost as moral as the fullest void is full

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Movies have worse scenes than this.

Heard it here first folks, if it's in a movie, it's not a war crime any more.

I'll say that I mostly agree, it's good to be critical and sceptical, but I do think that defense is well worse than lukewarm. I'd almost say if you treat your prisoners anywhere near as badly as they do in most movies, you're already well into war crime territory.

Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? (Edit: No, she is not gaslighting me, but may have some other issues.)

Today, before taking an Uber home, she sent me a text wanting me to be downstairs on the street to greet her as the Uber arrives. I read it and told her that yes, I'll be there. I didn't notice any further text because I was in the middle of something....

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I was thinking the same thing.

She asked me to murder someone. You know, couples stuff.

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I can't speak for anyone else, but I didn't turn anything, I just found a way to say what I had already been feeling the whole time. I never felt like a "man" or a "boy" and just smiled and nodded when other people described me in those categories. I didn't have the words, didn't have a way to let other people know how I felt about myself until now, and still struggle with some people who still don't understand.

I'm not a woman because I like nail polish, dresses, or unicorns, and I'm not not a woman because I like video games, dragons, and nerd shit. I'm a woman because that's who I am, and once I realized that was "allowed" it was the only true way to say it. I'm not a feminine man and I never was, and while I don't think I'm a particularly masculine woman, I didn't think "looking girly stuff" or "liking manly stuff" is ever going to define who you are. If you honestly don't know who you are, I can see it helping you figure it out, but if you are comfortable being who you are, you don't need to change it.

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As for you: talk to trans people. See if you can relate to them.

I second this whole thing. Consider your gender. Spend a bit of time thinking about it. If you are trans and don't know, it's not something that's going to suddenly start being true, you're just going to put the pieces together.

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I agree with the other replies too, but also yes. The hardest thing for some people to understand about my transition is that I don't want to be a different person than I was before. I'm not trying to change who I am. I just want to live who I have always been where people can see it in a way they couldn't before.

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So often, you'll hear trans people say they always knew. I think that's both the case, and a bit off. My guess is that they've always had a feeling SOMETHING was amiss, but weren't really able to nail down the exact feeling until, well... They started considering transitioning.

That's almost exactly what I was trying to say with my top level comment.

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I like "realize". I knew there was such a thing as a "sex change surgery" and even looked into it from a technical perspective because it intrigued me. It's fantasized about moving to a new city and getting one; starting over.

I'd heard an offhand version of David Reimer's story as kind of a conservative horror story. I'd seen movies and tv shows make plenty of fun of people who "pretended" to be "the wrong sex". Monty Python's "lady penis" scene still pops into my head sometimes.

I knew trans people existed and I'd seen a couple of people with "they/them" on their name badge. But I never really put together that those things were "real" in a meaningful way, or applicable to me and my experiences.

So then I kind of realized what it all meant.

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Because it was played twice

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White queen has to choose between meeting a king or a bear.

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I mean, there are so many ways. Just look around

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It's totally illegal right up until it suddenly isn't squatting any more

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Fuck, these days even in shows that are edited for commercials, they'll ignore those breaks and just put ads wherever they feel like it

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When is interrupting my viewing experience to show me an ad ever actually relevant?

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You engage with the skip button

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The bearings combined with the wrenches made me think, like, roboticist. So maybe they make fishing robots that double as sexbots?

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The small school I taught at said the pledge every day, but the principal did regularly announce to everyone present that they don't have to say it (but they did have to be there for it)

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There's no way that doesn't get struck down though, right?

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No one was ever naturally inclined to fear or hate LGBTQ+ people. It's nurture all the way down.

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There are so many examples of anti trans sentiment in older comedy. Just about all of them hinging on the "you can always tell" myth and/or highlighting how obviously wrong and confused the poor trans people must be. For someone whose only exposure to trans people was that for a long time, I can't begin to say how damaging and limiting that was.

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There's just a lot of anti trans stereotypes in media that I tolerated before. It's a lot harder to turn a blind eye to it when people use the same misunderstandings to try and tell me I'm sick and confused and bad for just being myself these days

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Brake dust is pretty well-mitigated by EVs too, on account of regenerative breaking.

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I will say that while evidence existing isn't definitive proof, the total lack of evidence would be convincing (in the other direction). That said, evidence does exist in this case, so

Edit: clarity

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Well, no. Perhaps I've been misunderstood.

If no evidence whatsoever for a claim exists, then there is no reason to favor that claim. This is an effectively rare situation, and basically only applies to things someone has made up whole cloth just now.

Likewise, the existence of some evidence is not necessarily definitive "proof" of a claim, merely enough of a reason to consider it further (such as considering alternative explanations or how well said evidence matches what we might expect)

In this case, there is evidence that somebody named Jesus may have existed, and however ideal that evidence may or may not be, it is about the amount of evidence we would expect to find of any given figure from his time.

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I think a large and important difference is the ease of back-room manufacturer. Anyone with a boiler can can make some alcohol, but vapes are rather more complicated, no? Cigarettes and other straight up smoking products would still be around, though.

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It felt good to live in a world where being legit was reasonable.

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You mean the side project of the guys from A Perfect Circle?

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The loop would need a step that involves recalculating the goal, in that case, not merely actions

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Where on the doll did the man page touch you?

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Solvent* then. Get them all under one umbrella

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Relevant xkcd. Sort of makes the opposite case, though.maybe you're just not the one they want to be communicating with.

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But that is what Randall's talking about. People who often read and write with text speech and frequent misspellings and such actually score better at spelling and grammar tests. It's not that they don't know how to do better, it's that they're choosing not to. That's how their audience communicates, so it's how they do too.

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You do know that you do it too, right? Even many words being spelled "correctly" and used "logically" have changed in meaningful ways. It might annoy when someone now says "I'm literally dying" after a joke, but once upon a time "incredible" meant "totally lacking credibility" and not "amazing". Language changes. In French, you negate a verb by saying "not verb step". Taken literally, it's the same meaningless gibberish as "could of," yet it's good enough for l'Académie Française while "could of" is abhorrent? I get that it's not how you'd like to communicate, and not how you'd like others to communicate with you, but it also isn't inherently bad or undesirable, since clearly that is how many people communicate.

So communicate the way you prefer, and make it known that you'd prefer that. But also, don't tell others they're wrong for reasons that are, ultimately, just as arbitrary as theirs.

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Just tryna start some fires, or...?

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Ever heard of the open source wish project?

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It was a short-lived project to basically rules-lawyer all the common wishes like wishing for wealth, long life, etc so you could still get them even from an uncooperative genie or a monkeys paw.

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It was a short-lived project to basically rules-lawyer all the common wishes like wishing for wealth, long life, etc so you could still get them even from an uncooperative genie or a monkeys paw.

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I would like to note that if you wanted to drive as far as possible, my car could probably go more than 5000mi in three weeks, though I typically only drive a few hundred a week.

And contrary to a gas car I never have to stop to fuel, I just get home and it charges over night.

Also, what's wrong with the "driving experience"? It's not loud enough or something?

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My car is plugged in to a normal power outlet in my garage. As long as it's not sharing a circuit with a stove or ac compressor or something it'll be fine, and even if it is you could work around that.

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What a weird ❓ way to use emoji 😁

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That character is almost literally on every thread I read.

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I somehow missed the word "dead" in the headline and started to scrutinize why, exactly, it was newsworthy that some broadcaster was found on a Greek island.

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What about the trans women who have "vagina, tits, and face"? Checkmate, atheists.

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I recognize the tool used and it genders me correctly all the time, so probably not what she's going for

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