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MapleEngineer , to Canada in Ontario Liberal leader distances herself from Trudeau: 'I think the bigger friend is Doug Ford'
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The Ford government is the most corrupt in Ontario history. They have committed billions of dollars of graft that we know about and likely many billions more that we don't. They are popular because they throw us a few crumbs so that the dumpth are willing to forgive the fact that they are robbing us blind.

MapleEngineer , to Technology in Elon Musk Begs Advertisers to Return as Twitter's Revenue Plunges
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I've lost the plot. I'm not sure whose posts were removed.

MapleEngineer , to Technology in Elon Musk Begs Advertisers to Return as Twitter's Revenue Plunges
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It just sounded a little bit like you were jumping to his defense. I gave you the benefit of the doubt and explained it but I think that's what happened. There are a LOT of pedants on Lemmy who will argue about whether someone said a specific word of phrase rather than addressing the underlying and obvious truth that someone is a wretched asshole (like Elon Musk.))

MapleEngineer , to Technology in Elon Musk Begs Advertisers to Return as Twitter's Revenue Plunges
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I think it was the phrasing. The comment you responded to didn't say that Musk had said either of the things you asked about. If you've been paying attention to the news about the complaints coming out of his companies its very clear that he is those things. It seems that your question is intended to refute the contents of the comment by being pedantic about whether Musk had actually said those things.

MapleEngineer , to Technology in Elon Musk Begs Advertisers to Return as Twitter's Revenue Plunges
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Could be.

MapleEngineer , (edited ) to Technology in Elon Musk Begs Advertisers to Return as Twitter's Revenue Plunges
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I think you're getting downvoted because everyone assumes that you're being a pedant, not because you asked a question.

MapleEngineer , to Privacy in [USA] Appeals court rules that cops can physically make you unlock your phone
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I've said it before that I'll say it again: Biometrics are a convenience to allow you or anyone else to unlock your phone quickly. Biometrics are NOT security.

DO NOT use biometrics to secure your phone unless you want anyone who has you and your phone to be able to unlock your phone without your permission.

MapleEngineer , to Ask Lemmy in What was your worst consensual sexual experience?
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I had sex with a friend who later came out as a lesbian. It was uninspired. We're still friends but that was a single time and never again.

MapleEngineer , (edited ) to Showerthoughts in With the recent issues of transgender people in sports, why don’t we move some sports over to a weight-class system?
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Sorry...I didn't answer these parts of your comment.

One tactic that I like is asking them questions that lead them to point out the flaws in their own arguments. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method

They have a carefully rehearsed circular logical set of arguments that are self-confirming. I can explain and explain and explain but it doesn't confirm their bias so they just keep going around in circles. I don't expect to reach them but I may help someone who isn't so closed minded to understand.

My daughter goes to pride festivals every year as a vendor in the market. Last year was hopping. This year was dead. My wife and I wondered if all the pushing to force biological males into the places that biological females fought for decades to get wasn't turning a lot of people off. That would be extremely sad since the LGBTQ+ community has worked so hard to get to where it is now.

Would you be more or less likely to learn from someone that calls you an extremist?

I have Asperger's so I don't care what people call me (other than calling me a transphobe or antisemite with the new definitions written by the extremists.) If they're making a cogent argument I will generally respond in kind.

MapleEngineer , (edited ) to Showerthoughts in With the recent issues of transgender people in sports, why don’t we move some sports over to a weight-class system?
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I have a lot of experience and I am very LGBTQ+ friendly. I only label as extremists those who push beyond the bounds of, "Everyone has rights, gender is a social construct and you can identify as whatever you want" into denying that male and female are things or claiming that identifying as a woman somehow magically makes you female. The whole, "You can't question what we believe or you're a transphobe" is EXACTLY the same as, "You can't question the actions of the state of Israel or you're an antisemite." It's utter nonsense. Those are both examples of extremism.

MapleEngineer , to Showerthoughts in With the recent issues of transgender people in sports, why don’t we move some sports over to a weight-class system?
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I meant "female" in the context of biological sex as opposed to the social construct of gender as in, "woman" which may be a person who is either male or female. I am FAR from a transphobe and using the word and the reporting system on Lemmy as a bludgeon to try to silence anyone who doesn't buy into the extremist group think utterly devalues anything else that the extremists say. One of my oldest friends is a trans woman. She would VERY much disagree that I am a transphobe. My lesbian daughter whose trans and non-binary friends I interact with every day would also very much disagree.

I would like to counter report this as a false report by an extremist pushing a political agenda and trying to silence anyone who has different ideas than them.

MapleEngineer , to World News in Israeli Politician Quotes Hitler to Argue for Resettlement of Gaza
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They have become the thing they hate.

MapleEngineer , to Showerthoughts in With the recent issues of transgender people in sports, why don’t we move some sports over to a weight-class system?
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Trans women are women but they aren't female. Gender is a social construct. Sex is not. You can choose to be a woman but that doesn't make you female.

Female atheletes understandably feel that it is unfair to have male atheletes breaking female athletic records. I mean...that's pretty obvious, isn't it?

I'm trying to explain to you why a female athelete who chose to play a female sport to have a more level playing field and to play against other female atheletes might feel that is is unfair to be forced to play against a male athelete and why they might feel that it is unfair to have a male athelete break a female athletics record by such a margin that no female athelete could ever hope fo break it again.

This is not a difficult concept. Gender is a social construct but we're not talking about gender. We're talking about male and female. A male can decide to identify as a woman but she can never be female. A female can decide to identify as a man but he can never be male. You can be equally socially but you will always be different sexually. That's just reality.

You want to live as a woman and be called a woman I'm totally on board with that. You just can't force people to believe that you've magically changed sexes because you haven't.

You can want against all want for it to be different but it isn't and it never will be.

I am not transphobic. Not by the longest of shots and labelling anyone who doesn't buy into the group think as a transphobe completely devalues anything else you might say. I absolutely believe in social equality but trans women and females will never be the same thing.

MapleEngineer , to Showerthoughts in With the recent issues of transgender people in sports, why don’t we move some sports over to a weight-class system?
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It's only confusing to you because it doesn't fit into your narrative and your carefuly rehearsed arguements don't work.

MapleEngineer , to Showerthoughts in With the recent issues of transgender people in sports, why don’t we move some sports over to a weight-class system?
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Go back and point to ANYWHERE that I said that it was unfair for trans women atheletes to play against female atheletes. I'll wait...

No? I didn't say that. You made that up. What I said was that female atheletes who choose to play female sports to have a more level playing field and to play against other female athelets feel that it's unfrair to be forced to play against male atheletes playing female sports.

THAT is absolutely undeniably true.

Female atheletes understandably feel that it is unfair to have male atheletes breaking female atheletic records by such margins that no female athelete will ever be able to break them.

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