Cryophilia

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Cryophilia ,

Chicken broth + lentils + whatever veggies you got lying around = tasty as shit soup

Just make sure to wash the lentils first

And to REALLY up your game use a mirepoix as the base.

Cryophilia ,

Roasted chickpeas with cauliflower is the bomb, especially with some cajun seasoning

Cryophilia ,

No, it's on the women saying the shitty thing, not the men who are being told the shitty thing.

It's absolutely an attack. It's insulting and gross.

Cryophilia ,

It’s not shitty for women to not trust guys they don’t know

That was not the question. The question specifically asked whether women would feel safer around a man or a bear.

No one trusts guys they don't know, that's an obvious take.

Saying an unknown guy is more dangerous than a fucking bear is insulting and bigoted.

Cryophilia ,

If women saw as many strange bears every day as they see strange men, there would be a lot more maulings than sexual assaults.

Yeah, it's not hard to understand: apparently, a large number of women are fuckin stupid.

Cryophilia ,

I guarantee all these women if they were alone in the woods, they would ATTACH themselves to a random man, no bear required.

Women hate men until it's time to lift something heavy or be protective or mow the lawn.

Cryophilia ,

The point isn’t the bear

The point is ABSOLUTELY the fucking bear. We KNOW you should be cautious around random men. That's an obvious goddamn statement. The fact that you'd pick a bear is what's sexist and insulting.

Have you ever even SEEN a wild bear?

I've never been shot in the head but I wouldn't pick that over a strange person.

So fucking stupid.

Cryophilia ,

That's just the first option.

Cryophilia ,

If there had been no hypothetical bear in the question, no men would be getting angry. "I feel wary around strange men" is an obvious statement.

And then when men get angry specifically because of the bear, all you smug fucks ignore the bear and pretend we're saying it's wrong to be wary around strangers at all.

Cryophilia ,

Cool, but worst case with the man is far far less likely than worst case with a bear.

Cryophilia ,

No one is asking you to take responsibility for the actions of rapists,

What are you talking about, women say that all the time.

Cryophilia ,

So it's not whataboutism. It's literally the topic of the conversation.

Cryophilia ,

And the point of the statement isn’t that bears are literally less dangerous than men. It’s to show how

Nah fuck that. If I say "all women are bitches" but what I really mean is that some women have an unfounded sense of entitlement, that's still a completely unacceptable thing to say.

Cryophilia ,

To you, maybe, but not to the horde. You're still saying "men are monsters", you're just personally exempting yourself.

Cryophilia ,

No. Fuck that. The X is the important part of that statement. I get just as pissed about "all men are trash" or "kill all men". It's hyperbole, and it's completely unacceptable language.

Cryophilia ,

You must be one of those men no woman wants to be around. Christ you're annoying.

Cryophilia ,

Your explanation was that women are so traumatized and fearful that they can't help but say hyperbolic things that they don't actually mean. To make a point, or something.

I don't see how those two sentences are any different. Your explanation was that "I'd rather be in the woods with a bear than a man" actually means whatever. Well the statement wasn't that whatever. That whatever might or might not be insulting and hurtful. "I'd rather be in the woods with a bear than a man" is insulting and hurtful, so don't fucking say that. Say whatever the fuck that's supposed to mean, instead.

Cryophilia ,

Fuck you. Why do the dumbest motherfuckers to drag their knuckles across this earth always think they're the smart ones?

How many bear encounters are there vs how many male encounters?

If you saw as many bears in your day to day as you did men, you'd be fucking terrified of bears.

I can't tell what's worse, women who pick the bear because they're sexist assholes, or women who pick the bear because they are literally, literally too stupid to live.

Cryophilia ,

Some men are monsters. This is a true statement that you’re degrading for… reasons.

Maybe because I'm a monster?

IT'S NOT FALSE, YOU'RE FUCKING DOING IT RIGHT NOW DUDE

Cryophilia ,

First of all, that's just black bears, the most cowardly of bears.

Second, it's too damn hot in Georgia for a bear to maul someone.

Thirdly, if you encountered as many strange bears daily as you did strange men, you'd be eaten by now.

Have you ever been shot in the head? Probably not. Well, since you don't have experience with it, you're not afraid of it, right? So better a bullet to the head than a strange man in the woods. Bullet has never harmed me.

All the responses siding with the bear so far have been either sexist or stupid. I'm gonna put you with stupid.

Cryophilia ,

I mean, that's totally understandable. I completely get that. But there's a much higher chance of a bear mauling you than a guy doing anything bad, surely you understand that, right?

Cryophilia ,

You can click "show context" if you've forgotten what the conversation is about.

Cryophilia ,

The words are the message. Women do not get a pass to insult all men and then say "oh, what I really meant was..."

No, fuck that. You said what you said, and it's sexist as hell.

Cryophilia ,

That's just facts. Look at the responses. "I've never been attacked by a bear" yeah and you've never fallen off a 40 story building, would you jump rather than take your chances with a stranger?

All the responses I'm seeing so far are either misandrist or stupid. "I've never been mauled by a bear" is stupid. "All men are potential rapists" is misandry.

Cryophilia ,

If the question was specifically black bears, it would be closer to making sense. But still ridiculous.

Cryophilia ,

That's what I just said, fuck are you seven? Are you allowed to be on the internet?

Cryophilia ,

No one - NO ONE - has as many random bear encounters as they do random male human encounters.

Because the few who try end up eaten.

Cryophilia ,

That's not whataboutism. Women being mean to men is the misandry part. It's back to my initial premise. It's a reaction to patriarchy, sure, but it's still misandry and still unacceptable.

Cryophilia ,

I'm not getting dragged into a pedantic semantics argument. If you think "okay, I agree that all X are horrible, but not me, I'm one of the good ones" works on a mob, be it on your head.

Cryophilia ,

Is it or is it not stupid as hell to prefer the bear?

Cryophilia ,

Yeah that's great and all so maybe just say something reasonable instead of a hyperbolic statement to show whatever. I can't just say "all women are bitches" but then clarify that what I meant was just to illustrate blah blah

If the point of you saying something sexist was to make a non-sexist point, you have completely and utterly failed.

Just don't say sexist things.

Cryophilia ,

Don't say sexist things, even if they're a metaphor for something else. Pretty simple.

Cryophilia ,

There was a tiktok viral video question. "Would you rather be in the woods with a strange bear or a strange man". A lot of women picked the bear.

Cryophilia ,

Just say you're scared of men. That's still unreasonable and a little insulting, but understandable. Don't rank us below a wild bear. The bear is what makes men angry.

Cryophilia ,

Is your wife single?

Cryophilia ,

Steal away

Cryophilia ,

pears

To be fair, I agree that pears > men

Cryophilia ,

Women feel that a random man is more likely to cause harm us harm, than a bear existing in the woods.

That's the whole reason we're angry dude, we get the point, we're just saying it's insulting and misandrist. Men are not monsters.

Cryophilia ,

Just don't say sexist things. I shouldn't have to parse some hidden meaning out from your sexism. Don't say sexist things.

Cryophilia ,

Are you saying women have the intelligence of a kitten?

Cryophilia ,

The issue is many women are going "obviously it's hyperbole", "obviously it's an analogy", so maybe don't say shit like that? It's insulting.

And then you get some other (mentally ill imo) women saying, no, I would literally rather be mauled by a bear than have to exist around a male stranger.

Cryophilia ,

Most men too

Cryophilia ,

See the bear will mostly likely leave you alone.

So will the man, that's the whole fucking point.

You're taking worst case scenario with the man vs best case scenario with the bear.

Cryophilia ,

That's not true and wildly unhealthy for you to believe. Not least of all because you might get your leg ripped into by a gator.

Cryophilia ,

Why does it have to go to worst case scenario? Just imagine what's likely to happen.

Cryophilia ,

I dunno, I just like to hope women are smart enough to be rational.

Cryophilia ,

And yet these women are saying they'd rather be around a bear than him. You don't think that's insulting?

Cryophilia ,

That does sound awesome. I'm so sick of all the fluff everywhere.

Thanks for sharing your pups, hope you have a great rest of your day!

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