Ok so now you're asking to speak to the managers manger, and that's gunna be the developers dude.
I get your sentiment bc I have to follow tos myself. But can I ask what other stuff would you put in the category of harmful? Just asking straight not yelling at you here.
I find the porn shit to be in the obscene annoying category. Like I'm in a field trying to catch butterflies and all there are, are fucking mosquitos lol
Ah, I see, so this is more personal for you. I get it, it's fine, in not crucifyung you here so hopefully you don't get angry. I come in peace with the following.
Indian women? One thing I read up on a while back (Was reading why it's more culturally wealthy to have sons and not daughters in india) is (correct me if I'm wrong my memory isn't the sharpest on this because it's horrible and I don't want to read about that again)
Is because a boy will bring the family OUT of poverty and a girl will make and or keep the family POOR.
A term here.... Gendercide......
That's got nothing to do with what you think it does. Who knows maybe the definition now encompasses a third gender as they do in fact recognize in India, but during the time I learned about this term specifically to India, it's common for women their to either self terminate their pregnancy or kill their child if born a female. By their own hand... um this is devastating stuff guys. Before I even knew about that I had zero clue that was going on there. It's devastating.
I don't need to know any of your personal x y z but I understand how certain things sometimes strike a cord with us because we are close to what they are or maybe witnessed such in our own lives, heard stories etc. Some things are just personal period. That's valid so I can see and understand why you feel this way.
The only 'advice' here that I can give you, is to tell you to educate yourself on lemmy. Not that you aren't. But in order to have power over things you must understand how it operates first.
That said. About the moderators who seemingly don't give a shit?
THAT'S BECAUSE THEY DON'T.
I'm not saying any of this to shit on you. I'm saying it because ot needs to be said. Literally anyone ANYONE can make a community. Whether it gets removed and they get banned is another topic.
But what you're really doing, is you're asking for vile people to care my dear/sir/and or maedem, that is not humanly achievable by any means. It doesn't make it right no that's not what I'm saying. But community mods are not paid, neither are admins, they are for the most part not legally or financially bound to adhere to x y and z.
Basically Any jackoff can make and mod communities. Focus though on what YOU DO HAVE control over though blocking and muting
I originally posted irregularly on a sub and when I asked a mod for help as to why my posts weren't being approved, he randomly banned me from the sub without asking. I messaged and he said in the future I will be allowed again, he said 30 days....
Sucks and truly am sorry. I've been permanently banned 9 times. (Changed devices alot upgraded them alot)
I learned, that if you want to keep your reddit account you don't socialize on there, give advice or opinions either.
You just have to go back to lurking and block every single person who's an argument staRter even if they aren't directly talking to you. Block them so they can't see your shit. They don't need to bc they'll pick at it.
You were too involved. That's what happened .
Get a second hand device from a Pawn shop if it means this much to you, make an another account not linking to your phone and use it to lurk only.
You can comment but think before you do I wouldn't recommend posting at all but that's up to your discretion I guess. I wouldn't posting just leaves you open to mass reporters who hate or don't agree with the sentiment in your post.
Just don't in my opinion posting makes you a target
So I got a notice from Ticketmaster that my identity was accessed by an intruder and my name, contact info and /encrypted/ payment info was compromised....
A lot of people worldbuild when they daydream and have the bones of a story kicking around in their brain, but have to pay the bills and raise the kids etc so they never flesh it out and write it down. What's your story's premise? Fantasy, sci-fi, alternate history, mystery, western, whatever genre.
Cos if so why can I see a whole bunch of mod actions on the lemmy.ml mod-log but not here? If it doesn't how/why would any other instance respect a moderation action by another instance let alone know about it?
I'd add .mls matrix chat to stay on top of what they are up to. Do not chat with them at all in the matrix room.
Only use it to watch what they are talking about.
Don't quote me on this, bc like said, federation all that and the mod log shit is messy and ain't no damb body gunna actually be straight with you and go "Yea I purge it so my biased fucked up banning streak won't show. Gotta look honest not be honest remember?"
If you're looking for the truth you'll need to do the leg work on your own. You need to form your own opinion based on what you're seeing after looking it up.
Anyway, go to their instance and type 'federate mod log' into their search. You should find some dialog about it
Google up 'admin lemmy federate mod log' too, should help
Sup man how are you ? From what I've seen from you as an admin, you are a pretty decent dude. I feel like lemm.ee is one of the few how do I say this ?
'Chill' instances on lemmy. I think a lot of people appreciate that. I do for sure.
That said,
2 things
Can you dumb what you said down? Like way down lol I get what you are saying, but I'd understand it more throughly broken down elementary school style if u don't mind. I think that would also maybe help the people who aren't as technical being fediverse has a lot of moving parts.
Lastly I have a question
Im 2nd of another admin on our instance, and sometimes I'll see removed posts or comments to which I can restore them. What is up with that ? I don't get it.
Can other admins remove my instance stuff vise versus? And restore vise versa ?
Why don't you just talk shit to them though ? That's what I don't get about y'all.
Man, sometimes on the fediverse, not lemmy like on mastodon type instance, I'll see some vile shit being said by ppl who clearly fucking hate whoever it is they're vocally hating.
I just call them out in a visceral way. I tell them that they are just a little bitch. And to go say what they are saying to X group while recording it in public and to post it afterwards.
I then tell them I know they won't because they are nothing but an ignorant pussy talking shit online and know they'll get their ass whipped for saying that shit to someone's face for real.
Because it's true. They're only saying shit like that online because they know they're safe from confrontation.
Unless...
I see that shit. And I keep fucking going until they eventually stop fucking posting.
I will not let up. You wanna talk like that? Then imma fuck u up lol
Basically, y'all need to do that. You wanna be unpleasant? Then that's what u get. You are teaching them that if they continue to talk that way online, they'll have nothing but ppl going after them and they won't do it anymore because people are dog piling them.
The defederate banning whatever y'all do just to me comes off that y'all are to afraid of them or something. If they're being openly racist you should openly run them off by calling them out for what they are.
But really what this all really is
Is a fake 'solution' to get rid of literally every one who just disagrees with your politics. That's the truth. You call everyone a racist if they say anything that doesn't agree with leftists that's all.
Someone could say "I like trump" and boom that's all it takes. Or "I'm pro life" boom again
Yall are dishonest it shows to everyone who isn't a fool
Oh my God. Just cause you're a coward and can't call ppl out for being shitty, doesn't mean I want to talk nazis.
You run in the face of danger, I beat the shit out if it. How's being passive aggressive because you can't handle shit in real life working out for you ?
Despite not subscribing to political communities and having a large number of content filters based on keywords, my feed here is still for a large part all negative articles and ragebait. Elon Musk this and Israel that. Microsoft ruining windows, AI ruining internet, right wingers and capitalism ruining the world, police being...
I’m thinking along the lines of older spouse dies, younger spouse marries someone younger and becomes the older spouse. Then older spouse dies again and repeat. Has anything like this happened in a long enough chain to be significant? Is it so mundane no one cares?
So far I've checked several "getting started"'s and FAQ's and Google and everyone just tells me that it's possible but nobody tells me fucking WHERE. So obviously I'm in need of help. Preferably with a diagram or colourful pictures....
What kind of music is this similar to and where can I find more?
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I originally posted irregularly on a sub and when I asked a mod for help as to why my posts weren't being approved, he randomly banned me from the sub without asking. I messaged and he said in the future I will be allowed again, he said 30 days....
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Don't you all get tired of the constant negativity?
Despite not subscribing to political communities and having a large number of content filters based on keywords, my feed here is still for a large part all negative articles and ragebait. Elon Musk this and Israel that. Microsoft ruining windows, AI ruining internet, right wingers and capitalism ruining the world, police being...
What communities would you participate in if they were here on Lemmy ?
I've been disconnected from the world for a year. What happened on the internet since then?
One year and 1.5 months to be more precise....
Can the internet ever be fun again?
Or is it just doomed to the vapidity of sterile commercialization?...
Using Ubuntu may give off hipster vibes to the average PC user, but within the Linux community its has the opposite effect.
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What is the longest discontinuous marriage?
I’m thinking along the lines of older spouse dies, younger spouse marries someone younger and becomes the older spouse. Then older spouse dies again and repeat. Has anything like this happened in a long enough chain to be significant? Is it so mundane no one cares?
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Okay, I give up. How do I user-block instances?
So far I've checked several "getting started"'s and FAQ's and Google and everyone just tells me that it's possible but nobody tells me fucking WHERE. So obviously I'm in need of help. Preferably with a diagram or colourful pictures....