There is no way to argue against a statement like "Women's safety is more important than men's feelings" because it's such a loaded and ambiguous statement. It's just as loaded and misused as the statement "it's wrong to murder children" when used by proponents of banning abortion and limiting women's reproductive rights. You can't argue that it's okay to "murder children" because it's not okay to do that, but they're intentionally misusing the statement to their own benefit for the emotional impact.
There's probably some name for this logical fallacy, but I don't know what it is. But the important thing is that you've fallen victim to it. "Men's feelings" and "women's safety" don't negate each other, and they don't have to compete; not unless you challenge somebody to argue against the statement "Women's safety is more important than men's feelings" exactly as you've done here. You're manufacturing conflict from out of nowhere, and it's an annoying distraction from real-world issues.
Why don't you target your statement a little better? Why don't you hold the actions of rapists and abusers against rapists and abusers, instead of innocent men who've done nothing but try to live their lives and respect the people around them?
Get off your fucking high-horse and rejoin reality with me where we have mutual respect for each other, whether you're a man or a woman.