Autism

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BackOnMyBS , in Is somebody ever completely demotivated with everything? How do you deal with it?
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I have those periods. I think of them as autistic shutdowns. For me, they happen when I've been overwhelmed by too much stress, interruptions, demands, or sensory overload.

BackOnMyBS , in Need noise cancelling headphones recommendations
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OP, did you settle on any specific headphones you would recommend?

thezeesystem OP ,

I went with the Sony WH-CH720N only because it was 56% off on Amazon. So far it's pretty decent besides the shit Sony does by gatekeeping things behind a login in order for noise cancelling. And the noise canceling isn't the best but its good enough for me. Very long battery life and good audio at least for me.

BackOnMyBS , in I suffer from this thing called object permanence
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What's supposed be a different way of experiencing this variable/trait? For example, are people imagining things and believe those things exist?

wonderfulvoltaire OP ,
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That would be a schizophrenic side effect. This is like say for example you put your phone down and after a couple minutes it's gone but it's still there this is incredibly frustrating to say the least.

uriel238 , in I suffer from this thing called object permanence
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Um, to be fair, Descartes mostly agrees with you. (He later tries to finagle god and the rest of the world with some dubious logic, but that's challenged more often than the initial premise and first step.)

rand_alpha19 , in Pourque no los dos?

I really don't know how to relax. I always feel stressed, even after a day of doing whatever I want. Any tips? I really don't know what to do about it.

Frog ,

Relaxing stresses me out.

souperk , in I suffer from this thing called object permanence
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Reminds of the "out of sight, out of mind" phrase which is used a lot by the ADHD community. Essentially, we tend to forget stuff either because we are hyperfocused on something (common ASD trait too), or because our working memory sucks. As a result, whenever something gets out of our sight, we tend to forget about it.

For example, yesterday I almost burnt my food because I decided to quickly reply to a message. Before I realized it, an hour had passed and I was rushing to the kitchen to save whatever I could.

Are you experiencing something similar?

Thanks btw, I wasn't aware of the term "Object Permanence", here is a wikipedia link for anyone interested:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Object_permanence

Object permanence is the understanding that whether an object can be sensed has no effect on whether it continues to exist (in the mind). This is a fundamental concept studied in the field of developmental psychology, the subfield of psychology that addresses the development of young children's social and mental capacities. There is not yet scientific consensus on when the understanding of object permanence emerges in human development.

I wish a good day back at you 😁

BottleOfAlkahest ,

So object permanence is way more extreme than what most people with ASD or ADHD experience. You can demonstrate a lack of object permanence in young children by presenting them with a toy and then covering the toy with a blanket, while they child is watching. The child will react as if the object is gone and be unable to find the toy. It's at some point in the toddler phase where most children pick up object permanence. For example you'd expect a 4 year old to lift the blanket they saw you place over the toy.

With ADHD it's an attention/working memory issue. I'd expect an ND adult to know to look under the blanket they saw placed over an object immediately after it happened. Someone without object permanence couldn't do that. It's why peek-a-boo is a fun game for babies but not ADHD adults.

Jarix ,

It's weird to hear peekaboo described so technically

Treemaster099 , in being deprived of solitude long enough will eventually kill me.

I'm reading this directly after a long day of social interactions with strangers. My social battery hit zero about two hours before the event was over and it still had two hours of talking to my kid(I love him to the bone, but I just can't handle the nonstop talking when I'm this drained) and I got a surprise phone call from my family on top of all that

Safe to say I'm not gonna willingly talk to anyone for the next 24 hours. Just wanted to say I know the feeling and I hope you get the chance to decompress soon

sOlitude24k , in being deprived of solitude long enough will eventually kill me.

Fellow introvert. Don't really know what to say other than this post tracks. The value of just "being" is really important.

Hope your week is well. And everyone who reads this, too.

thoughtfuldragon , in being deprived of solitude long enough will eventually kill me.

Holy fuck. I am similar. I didn't think there were other people like me. It doesn't hit as bad or as often but being around people too long can lay me up for a while. I'm slowly coming back from a bad episode rn.

ohlaph , in being deprived of solitude long enough will eventually kill me.

Love you too, buddy.

jabathekek , in being deprived of solitude long enough will eventually kill me.
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That feel when most other people are 1/2 level cognito hazards.

NielsBohron , in Pourque no los dos?
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Anyone who's ever abused ketamine or DXM knows that dissociating from reality is relaxing.

After all, have you seen reality lately?

jabathekek , in Pourque no los dos?
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What? Of course completely immersing in a video game and forgetting about the entire world is relaxing!

craig9 , in I am myself and myself is bad at fitting in

How the *world works

Arkhive , in We have our own instance: lemmy.autism.place

I’m currently fairly attached to my instance, but I’m so glad this is happening!! Might make a second account just to give y’all the numbers!

BackOnMyBS OP Mod ,
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Thank you! Maybe also come by every once in a while to see if we have any cool new communities pop up that you would like to subscribe to as we grow :)

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