hardcoreufo ,

Move in with my friend in the Netherlands. He's wanted me to move even if Biden wins.

corsicanguppy ,

I say Go Anyway. The Netherlands is awesome.

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

What the fuck are you hanging around here for? Go live a better life

archonet ,

I guess "get fucked", realistically speaking. I can't afford to leave on my own, my social life is empty of anyone else I can depend on, and I will almost certainly have a target on my back as a gay guy -- after they're done with trans people, we'll probably be next.

intensely_human ,

my social life is empty of anyone else I can depend on

This is a problem that needs fixing regardless of who’s elected.

Why don’t you have a support network?

archonet ,

The only family I have supporting me right now doesn't want to leave the country and can't provide meaningful support from afar, meaning I have to stay here. And staying during a second Trump term could be dangerous very quickly indeed if I'm to believe even half of the insane shit coming out of Project 2025.

other than my family, I just don't have much luck making connections with other people, I get along better with dogs. Unfortunately, dogs don't help pay rent. worse, if Trump wins another term, I would actually consider it dangerous to be openly gay. Not that I was getting dates anyways, but it means I probably won't try anymore if it's going to put me or my family at risk of harassment.

I'm just trying to enjoy every day I have with my family and try not to panic too hard, now, mostly through distracting myself with weed and videogames. I don't know how soon things will get bad, but I don't think we have the resources necessary to protect us from what's coming if he wins again. We're struggling as is -- I've lost my job recently, I had to go through cancer this past year, I'm depressed -- I don't also need to be shit-scared of how the election plays out. Even if he loses, so much is still so fucked with our country right now.

intensely_human ,

What games do you play?

archonet ,

helldivers 2, mostly, as of late

intensely_human ,

I smoke weed and play video games too. Let me know if you want to game sometime

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

Why don’t you have a support network?

Where does one buy one of those, and how much do they cost? Asking for me. 😂

intensely_human ,

I think you buy them by keeping your own promises to people consistently, but I’m not sure since I haven’t done that yet.

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

I think you likely also have to be decently sociable, and I find socialising with people in real to be both difficult and exhausting.

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

Mine cost me about $4k from an at-the-time reputable fursuit maker

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

Ah that’s my problem. I’m spending too much on silicone dicks and not enough on the suit.

wolfeh ,
@wolfeh@lemmy.world avatar

Nah, I don't think you spent too much. We all need to take Chances once in a while.

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

It does cost a lot though, gotta be careful not to Nix your wallet and Crash your economy.

wolfeh ,
@wolfeh@lemmy.world avatar

And this is why I love Lemmy. :D

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

Aww, and Lemmy loves you! 💖

Also, just to toot my own horn, I felt pretty proud of that last one. I initially was like "how the heck do you casually drop Fenrir or David in a sentence" but... It's not nearly as elegant as Chance.

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

We are friends now, if you need support just let me know :3

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

Aww, that's so sweet! I suppose this means that the way to make adult friends is to tongue-in-cheek talk about adult toys.

I did actually make a in-person friend doing exactly that once.

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

Depending on your sexual culture and relationship status, tongue-in-cheek can be a great way to make friends

wolfeh ,
@wolfeh@lemmy.world avatar

Hehehehe

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

Yeah, I mean it's easier to do online since generally I move in fairly sex-positive circles. With my in-person friend it was because I misheard what she said. I thought she mentioned that she'd ordered dildos and whatnot from a particular book store and I was like "wait, they have dildos??" We'd only met like a couple hours earlier, but we've been good friends ever since. 😅

wolfeh ,
@wolfeh@lemmy.world avatar

Very well done. :D

dojan ,
@dojan@lemmy.world avatar

You too!

afraid_of_zombies ,

Get a lesbian beard now would be a decent plan to consider. Just someone you can stand enough to have as a roommate.

dan1101 ,
@dan1101@lemm.ee avatar

If nobody paid any attention to him we could just passive aggressively get through the next 4 years.

bitwaba ,

Yeah. That worked last time

intensely_human ,

It did

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

For the survivors at least

HurlingDurling ,
@HurlingDurling@lemmy.world avatar

Leaving the country and taking my kids in case plan 2025 starts happening.

intensely_human ,

I’m going to keep going to work, brushing my teeth, keeping my apartment clean, working out, visiting my father on the weekends. (serious)

intensely_human ,

Regardless of whom is elected, I’m going to keep listening to Bernie Sanders’s podcast, which I just discovered.

He’s just a few episodes in and is still learning, but it’s gonna be a really good podcast.

EssentialNPC ,

Before the election we will be preparing bugout bags for my nuclear family and establishing concrete plans to flee.

After the election, if Trump wins we will monitor and be ready. At the first sign of trouble we get out of dodge. I have the ability to get EU citizenship for my family if need be. In the meantime, my wife and I have skills that can get us the privilege to move into some countries based on their employment needs.

My family and I would have reasons to be targeted by white nationalists if they felt empowered. I have received semi-threatening letters from such people in the past.

I hate that we have to think this way, but we do.

Delusional ,

Just keep on living without trying to let the complete bullshit affect my well being.

Why wouldn't you want a man-baby rapist pedophile as president? He's good enough for the republicans.

Son_of_dad ,

All the young uni kids who went full anti Biden on one issue, are likely too young to remember what president Trump was really like. They're gonna love him, since being miserable and outraged seems to be their preferred default.

match ,
@match@pawb.social avatar

the uni kids reasonably thought they could convince biden to condemn genocide

acockworkorange ,

Jump ship. Honestly, I’ll execute plan “leave the U.S. while it’s still possible.”

unreasonabro ,

Hope it don't turn out that's before the election. he's signalled every intent to clamp down hard

PlantDadManGuy ,

You must realize he's pandering to the far right extremists. He had every opportunity to actually close the borders and realistically build a wall. This guy is so full of shit his eyes are brown.

acockworkorange ,

It’s not him I’m afraid of, it’s his followers.

_core ,

Check out project 2025 to see how Trump's cronies are planning on purging the govt of anyone not loyal to Trump and MAGA and replacing them with loyalists.

harrys_balzac ,

Move faster and work lots of overtime to get the last of my debt paid off then going to a friends place in Mexico. I speak Mexican Spanish well enough so I can avoid areas filled with expats.

starman2112 ,
@starman2112@sh.itjust.works avatar

Stick around and keep trying to improve the country despite everyone else's best efforts to fuck it all up

medgremlin ,

This is my plan. I have to finish medical school anyways, and once I've done that, I'll be in a better position to help other people.

Cybermonk_Taiji ,

Oh you sweet summer child

rbesfe ,

What have you done lately?

medgremlin ,

I'm very curious as to why you think I'm naive in some way, and why you see yourself as so much wiser than another internet stranger.

snownyte ,
@snownyte@kbin.social avatar

Someone has already opened an opportunity for me to move to the UK, but for non-political reasons. Though it will remain an option.

Triasha ,

Panic

Olgratin_Magmatoe ,

Not sure. But my partner and I have an out, we will probably move to their home country and start a new life there if need be. It's kind of hard to determine when the right time to leave is.

vermyndax ,

If things get very, very bad, this will be our plan as well.

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